Either through memes or comments I keep seeing this sentiment pop-up from time to time. And I’m wondering what your (yes, you) consensus is on it.
I for one am too pessimistic to do anything with potential hints. Like even if there is a good chance I still just don’t want to risk it.
It’s not just men, as an autistic woman I have a hard time with this too. It’s better if people are just straight forward and plain spoken