You are being rude and insulting. It really makes me question how genuine your emotional tirade really is.

Let me make this very clear, in case it really wasn’t. My reply was made in the context of OP’s fat acceptance propaganda in a public forum, directed to no one single person. Likewise, me stating that it’s preferable to give constructive advice, was primarily speaking of doing so in a public context. Secondarily, it meant you should do so in private too. But what does that mean? With whom should you have these conversations, and what would you say? I addressed none of these questions and left them unanswered for bevity. You decided to fill up that gap in the most uncharitable way possible. That’s your problem.