I, too, like to go up to random people and verbally announce their flaws. It’s compassionate, after all. These people need to be TOLD they’re fuck ups, otherwise how else could they POSSIBLY know about their misgivings? I find that random advice as a stranger is usually not well received…it’s super weird. I just helped them fix themselves!
You are being rude and insulting. It really makes me question how genuine your emotional tirade really is.
Let me make this very clear, in case it really wasn’t. My reply was made in the context of OP’s fat acceptance propaganda in a public forum, directed to no one single person. Likewise, me stating that it’s preferable to give constructive advice, was primarily speaking of doing so in a public context. Secondarily, it meant you should do so in private too. But what does that mean? With whom should you have these conversations, and what would you say? I addressed none of these questions and left them unanswered for bevity. You decided to fill up that gap in the most uncharitable way possible. That’s your problem.
I, too, like to go up to random people and verbally announce their flaws. It’s compassionate, after all. These people need to be TOLD they’re fuck ups, otherwise how else could they POSSIBLY know about their misgivings? I find that random advice as a stranger is usually not well received…it’s super weird. I just helped them fix themselves!
Jesus Christ.
Bro, someone told me my neck was fucked up. Have been working on my posture ever since, its all based on if it’s said in good faith.
You are being rude and insulting. It really makes me question how genuine your emotional tirade really is.
Let me make this very clear, in case it really wasn’t. My reply was made in the context of OP’s fat acceptance propaganda in a public forum, directed to no one single person. Likewise, me stating that it’s preferable to give constructive advice, was primarily speaking of doing so in a public context. Secondarily, it meant you should do so in private too. But what does that mean? With whom should you have these conversations, and what would you say? I addressed none of these questions and left them unanswered for bevity. You decided to fill up that gap in the most uncharitable way possible. That’s your problem.