The ones I found:
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https://lemmy.world/c/196 Probably the best since the owner of lemmy.world plans to scale the server to keep up with traffic.
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https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/c/196 This one is currently mentioned in the reddit pinned post but I fear that the server can’t keep up with the load.
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https://lemmy.ml/c/196 The lemmy.ml owners themselves said to use other instances (they might also be tankies which ppl won’t like).
Officially it was a subreddit where the main rule was that you had to post before you left. Unofficially it was a meme/shitposting group that was very pro lgbt+ especially pro trans. Mostly as a response to a lot of the main shitposting subs being kinda transphobic.
Thanks