Exactly. There’s something reassuring about it always being a skill issue. Am I going to develop those skills? Probably not. But I could.

I actually helped drive someone at my bike co-op to linux by comparing it to why I fix my bike. My bike is janky, but I’m the one who fucked it up. And no irritation is “get over it” it’s “here’s what it would take to fix it, decide if it’s worth it”