[Edited title and body to change Selfish to Doomer.]

These Doomer Nihilists are so sure the world is so completely fucked, that they just nope out of any meaningful action that might mitigate what’s coming.

Hell, they might be right. But it takes an incredibly selfish person to assume their idea of the future is absolute, to the point you just go “If I’m doomed, I’ll just let it burn with everyone inside.”

I’ve been called naive, idealistic and cliche just because I believe in the Human capacity to adapt and thrive, and our unique ability as Humans to choose what we believe. How a positive mindset will -literally- move us in a positve direction, generally speaking.

And I admit, I am verying degrees of those things… But am I wrong?

Humans became… And we’re still becoming, a collective organism as the internet spreads. It’s far from perfect, but it keeps us all connected in one way or another. That gives each and every one of us a little push and tug on the whole.

Unless you are truly isolated in your life, and my heart breaks for those who are, your positivity matters. Your negativity matters. These things spread to anyone who interacts with you, whether it’s the slightest bit or enough to get someone to see another perspective. It spreads and it matters.

I just feel like… if more people were a little more naive and idealistic, but informed, we might not be so fucked.

Face it like a Human.

[Edited slightly for clarification]

  • @GardenVarietyAnxietyOP
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    47 months ago

    Thank you for that. I’ll concede to conflating doomerism with nihilism. My apologies.

    The personality I’m referring to is the “Meh, nothing matters, I have no control, fuck it” type. That’s still a Nihilist. And those are the type that always seem to show up and “ahctshually” me when I say something positive.

    • peto (he/him)
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      27 months ago

      Yeah, people like that are a where a big chunk of my misanthropy comes from. To pin any kind of philosophical label on them though I think is wrong. I think it is more accurate to say that they don’t engage with any. You can equally complain about their fatalism, except fatalism doesn’t preclude taking action. Even their brand of doomerism is boring.

      If they really believed and understood the position they appear to take, they would likely have killed themselves already.

      I would pay them the same mind you would a rock.

      • @GardenVarietyAnxietyOP
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        7 months ago

        If there was a rock that defied my logic the way Doomer Nihilists do, I would pay very close attention to it.

        Again, genuinely curious here… I assume based on your beliefs that you understand and, at least generally, adhere to the scientific method.

        How can you conclude the meaninglessness of our universe when a vanishingly small number of humans have ventured out of our atmosphere, and every bit of information we have on galaxies outside of our own is at least tens of thousands of years old?

        Is there any evidence on either side of the argument?

        Claiming “Nothing” carries the same burden of proof as claiming “Something,” scientifically speaking.

        For the record, I do consider myself spiritual, but every spiritual belief I hold has a tangible, real world counterpart. I try to see and understand the world from both perspectives.

        • peto (he/him)
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          37 months ago

          By all means pay attention to rocks, you don’t want one to fall on you, or to trip over one. Just remember if you kick it, or try to persuade it, you will suffer and it won’t.

          I’m more than happy to be moved off the position if something presents itself, so far nothing has. Nor do I reject a general spiritual position, I would even say I have had experiences best described as mystical but I don’t see that as anything separate from the mind.

          That we inhabit a small corner of something so vast that we can in a very real sense never interact with most of it. That even if we could, makes no special allowances to us and would end our lives simply by its nature. Is what leads me to conclude that there is no intrinsic meaning. What would be the meaning of a star? What even would be the shape of it’s meaning?

          We have no reason to think that the moon would be much different if we never were as a species never were, aside from some tyre tracks and some litter. Of course, the man in the moon, or the rabbit wouldn’t be there without humans to see them, but those are things we project onto it.

          • @GardenVarietyAnxietyOP
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            37 months ago

            Not trying to move, just trying to understand and challenge my own worldview.

            While Nihilism still doesn’t pass my logic check, I do believe that reality is subjective and relativity is universal. We all may be pulling from the same box of Lego, but none of us are building the exact same thing, and the further you go from your own, the more varied the designs become.

            I can see how it could all be interpreted as meaningless relative to the Human experience, and to be fair, that’s the only one we’ve got.

            I could go on, but I don’t want to push the issue further than it needs. Thanks for taking the time to politely engage with me. You’ve given me things to think about.

            • peto (he/him)
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              37 months ago

              It was a pleasure. It is always good to have a conversation about these things, and I am pleased you were open to one.