Been homeless over 6 years. My social services agency, high turnover. Being female , almost all my case managers have been female, standard practice.
Out of 17 case managers, only 2 have been male. Female cms: detailed, logical, responsive, solution oriented, clear effective communication. Male cms, the opposite.
I try to communicate clearly, effectively, which is easy cuz autism, and the 2 male cms, i get constant 2nd guessing, passive-aggressive defensiveness. Get impression they’re automatically assuming I don’t think clearly, don’t know what I’m saying. It’s weird, and I can’t figure out why.
I know not all men are the same. I’m not like all women. Have I just been unlucky with these 2 cms, or is there a gender aspect to this I’m not understanding? I’d like to learn.
Maybe it’s also industry-specific? I wonder if women more commonly get into the field out of a desire to help, and men get into it out of a desire to be employed.
Again, just spit balling.
Haha men bad.
Reading comprehension bad.
He was just spit balling
If he’s right, then I’m definitely bad guy.
Well to be fair, we don’t know that you aren’t. You could be a murderer. Or even worse, somebody who doesn’t mind wearing their socks after they get wet.
Oh my fuck.