So is the bar “a place other than the bar or dating apps” though? You see my conundrum. Must I start drinking again simply to find a partner? Sobriety (well, weed, but whatever) is a married man’s game?
It would be a lot easier if you drank casually id say but I’m assuming you would probably want a SO that doesn’t drink as well. There was an organization near me that did all kinds of kayaking, hiking, theme parks, restaurants, tours just for singles called ‘events and adventures’ or excursions or something like that and a friend of mine had some luck with meeting his wife there. Maybe you could try if you are in the US I’m sure every major city has something like that
Nah I just go to the bar and do some shots. Buy some drinks for the girls. Social lubricant, You know what I mean jelly bean?
So is the bar “a place other than the bar or dating apps” though? You see my conundrum. Must I start drinking again simply to find a partner? Sobriety (well, weed, but whatever) is a married man’s game?
It would be a lot easier if you drank casually id say but I’m assuming you would probably want a SO that doesn’t drink as well. There was an organization near me that did all kinds of kayaking, hiking, theme parks, restaurants, tours just for singles called ‘events and adventures’ or excursions or something like that and a friend of mine had some luck with meeting his wife there. Maybe you could try if you are in the US I’m sure every major city has something like that
That sounds like a good idea if it’s specifically for singles, sounds like exactly what I’m looking for! I’ll see if my area has anything, thanks!