It feels like people are a lot nicer here than on Twitter and Reddit, and even when people disagree, it’s generally civil and not an all-out flame war. Also, there’s no algorithm promoting outrage all the time.
For me, the anticipation of toxicity was a huge deterrent for me ever participating in real discussions, but here I feel like I can be myself.
I think it’s healthier this way.
Disagree. There was a thread the other day about how it’s annoying seeing nothing but posts bitching about reddit, that it’s like complaining about your ex on a date with someone new. I posted something like “yeah I noticed that too” and some lunatic started harassing me nonstop. They even admitted they confused me and my post for OP and the original post, and still doubled down on their own mistake. Truly unhinged behavior.
Read for yourself here, tell me if I’m the crazy one: https://lemmy.world/comment/949449
There was also another religious lunatic in a thread about keeping government secular who couldn’t understand the concept of keeping their religion out of our government. I’ve never wanted to punch someone in the face through my monitor before that badly in my life.
People are gonna be people no matter if they are on Reddit or Lemmy, that guy who was arguing with you had a negative score, next time just stop replying, saves both of you time.
Yeah rule #1 of the internet is don’t feed the trolls so I shouldn’t have bit. I just couldn’t help it.