Teachers describe a deterioration in behaviour and attitudes that has proved to be fertile terrain for misogynistic influencers

“As soon as I mention feminism, you can feel the shift in the room; they’re shuffling in their seats.” Mike Nicholson holds workshops with teenage boys about the challenges of impending manhood. Standing up for the sisterhood, it seems, is the last thing on their minds.

When Nicholson says he is a feminist himself, “I can see them look at me, like, ‘I used to like you.’”

Once Nicholson, whose programme is called Progressive Masculinity, unpacks the fact that feminism means equal rights and opportunities for women, many of the boys with whom he works are won over.

“A lot of it is bred from misunderstanding and how the word is smeared,” he says.

But he is battling against what he calls a “dominance-based model” of masculinity. “These old-fashioned, regressive ideas are having a renaissance, through your masculinity influencers – your grifters, like Andrew Tate.”

  • TokenBoomer
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    You’re not wrong. But it shifts the blame to women when the onus should be on men to to be responsible.

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      It’s not about being “responsible.” Andrew Tate isn’t “responsible” and women throw themselves at him.

      It’s about money. Andrew Tate has a lot of it, so he gets a lot of sex.

      It’s what encourages men to be as shitty as possible in order to make as much money as possible.

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        1 year ago

        I don’t feel like explaining. It’s capitalism. Patriarchy serves capitalism.

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          1 year ago

          Umm, then why do women prefer to have sex with wealthy men over regular ones?