• [email protected]
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    281 month ago

    “I don’t judge. A few decades ago, anal and oral were illegal across half the US. Contributing to continued sexual stigmatization actively detracts from peoples’ capacity to harmlessly enjoy their lives and express love. I’m not going to devote any mind space to care about whether someone enjoys cilantro or pineapple. If someone wants to get off to exfoliating horse hooves, so be it. That’s their freedom.”

  • Match!!
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    151 month ago

    50/50 that they’re into it amd couldn’t figure out another way to bring it up

  • @[email protected]
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    11 month ago

    Everything’s about sex except for sex, if you’re really put off enough by someone’s yums maybe ask them what that kink does for them aside from just the gratification, maybe they’re trying to control a trauma, maybe they’re expressing a repressed part of themselves, maybe there’s an abstract part of it that just hits the fun button for them.

    • @[email protected]
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      17 days ago

      Or maybe they just want to play with shit while an old timey catholic priest tells them they’re going to burn for eternity in hell. Shout out to father Fitzgerald!

  • arthurpizza
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    -11 month ago

    Time to get new friends.

      • arthurpizza
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        31 month ago

        Or maybe, find friends that are less judgemental and more open minded. Just a thought.

        • @[email protected]M
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          130 days ago

          Depends on the fetish honestly. Everything should be judged IMO. Having a close minded friend group just puts you into the Lemmy zeitgeist or turns you into hexbears in real life. Sounds insane.