• bull⚡
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    2 months ago

    The hits keep on hitting. Told I have the diabeetus last week. This afternoon I get the call that my nan has passed away, so with my parents in America I’m handling things with my best British stiff upper lip and just now I finally sat down after having to call my mum and tell her that her mum has died then dealing with the paperwork, looked at my phone and it appears the reason I stopped hearing from the woman I was interested in persuing things with is that she might have taken her jerk ex back.

    Sprinkle in a couple of minor work annoyances like people ignoring things I say when I’m meant to be a voice of authority and I’m just having a grand old time. Yaaaay.

    • @[email protected]
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      62 months ago

      Oh that all sucks, I’m sorry. Can you at least take a day or two off work? It’d give you some space to process and minimise the idiots while your tolerance is low.

      • bull⚡
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        72 months ago

        Yeah I’ve told work I won’t be available tomorrow. Got some things to take care of so it’ll be good to take a day.

    • @[email protected]
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      62 months ago

      I’m sorry you’re having a hard time mate. Try to find some time to do some things that bring you peace when you can ❤️

    • @[email protected]
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      62 months ago

      I’m sorry for your loss.

      Will you get some time or are you entitled to some bereavement leave?

      Make sure you look after yourself as best as possible during this tough time and please let us know if there’s anything we can do for you.

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    142 months ago

    Unicorn bell basket snack shopping mobile strikes again:

    5L goon, 4 pies, chips and dip. Is there nothing it can’t do.

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    2 months ago

    New glasses!!!

    I knew mine were scratched, but holy shit I can finally see clearly

    Edit: the image is too sharp lol it’s like I need the scratches.

        • @[email protected]OP
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          82 months ago

          I found that out too when I got my first pair of glasses about 5 years ago. Took me forever to realise that they were scratched and I was not in need of a new prescription.

  • Aradina [She/They]
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    112 months ago

    Flu bad. Why come I remove gunk from my nose and then there’s more gunk right away? I don’t like it. Why come body go ouchie even though I’m giving it a rest today? Unfair.

    Also tissue and lozenge delivery should be on Medicare

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      72 months ago

      I also remain bewildered and mortified by my body’s ability to generate seemingly endless amounts of mucus out of nowhere. Flu sucks though. I hope you get well very soon…

  • @[email protected]
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    102 months ago

    Doing my best not to feel anxious about today’s inspection and any forthcoming emails from the landlord. Very grateful for psych session later today though the emails will probably come tomorrow or later in the week. Hoping I can book in a session for next week too.

    Think I’m going to treat myself to pizza tonight. Salmon pizza

    • @[email protected]
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      62 months ago

      Try and remain calm. See if you can document things as they happen on your phone if you’re able to incase you need it for evidence at VCAT while it’s still fresh in your memory.

      A treat for yourself sounds well deserved.

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        52 months ago

        I did take some general photos of the joint (and of the defect on the balcony) before leaving for work this morning because I won’t be around for the inspection itself. That’s all I can do really, and hope for the best

    • @[email protected]
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      62 months ago

      Doing my best not to feel anxious about today’s inspection and any forthcoming emails from the landlord

      Absolutely zero point in stressing out before anything happens. sets you up for arguments you may not need to have and locks you into a position you may not want to hold. feel what you gotta feel but ride the wave of it all if you can.

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        32 months ago

        Yeah look tbh that’s exactly why I’m not going to be present during the inspection, I’d rather have some distance from it all this time and I don’t want any antagonism to leak out while they’re there. Only written communication going forward

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        52 months ago

        So far no emails or notes left around, nothing seems to have been disturbed. LL has a habit of dropping bombs on Friday afternoons so we’ll see what transpires through the week.

        Unit I viewed today was way too small. Only large enough for a bar fridge, and a communal laundry. Below my budget but not worth the savings

        • @[email protected]
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          42 months ago

          I’ve got my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏾

          I know finding a place at the moment really sucks. You’ll find something suitable I reckon, it’s just getting through that initial slog :)

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            Thanks. Yeah the competition is a bit stiff. I’m lucky at least to have a chunk of savings and a good job (and no visa hanging over my head!!!). Glad I got the ball rolling with inspections to know what’s out there and where my price point is at.

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    2 months ago

    I am ready to bathe myself in ice-cream. LOL.

    Man, it’s not like I haven’t ridden in this type of weather a lot, but I do not miss sweaty anything, let alone sweaty leathers.

    Edit: What sweet hell is this? I walked outside in shorts and a tee an hour later and it was 18! 18!

    Went inside to change, but still had ice-cream. ☺️

  • @[email protected]
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    92 months ago

    A little Negative Nancy (sorry to any Nancys that may be reading this)

    Assignment that was almost seven days overdue is done and submitted. I have no idea where the time went or what I have been doing. All I remember is the stressing.

    Two more due end of this week. At least one of them is more or less half done. I’m just worried I won’t finish them in time.

    I will try my best and use this as a learning experience. I will use myself as an example for my Future Students of What Not To Do.

    Then I will be done with uni, climb the Harbour Bridge, and transform into HighExperience2060.

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    I wish I had friends who were free on a Tuesday evening to just shoot the shit and share a pizza with. I remember long conversations in cars with uni friends after class, those halcyon days when we didn’t have so many Commitments and Schedules…

    It’s cooling down quite a bit now after a warm afternoon and gone all cloudy; don’t entirely feel up to a walk. But I AM having that damn pizza and catching up on today’s episode of OMITB after the toll of yesterday. I shall walk to work and back tomorrow instead. Done.

    But first… some reading on schema therapy…

    E: unrelated but DT fam, any recommendations for family friendly dinner spots in the CBD? Friend is visiting with their family from interstate, kid is ~2, mainly about vibe and not being insanely loud

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      42 months ago

      It’s probably not the same but what about a phone call?

      That’s than better than nothing and at least you can let it out and feel better about verbally having an outlet?

      It’s definitely cooler now. The sun has gone away and the cold breeze was out. I actually felt cold again.

      Go go Pizza!

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        42 months ago

        People don’t really seem to be into phone calls at my age! Well there’s one person I could’ve hit up normally but she’s overseas at the moment.

        It certainly has gotten cool again. Was nice to whip out a summer top for the day anyway.

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          42 months ago

          I’m still a phone person but yeah I understand. A lot of people around me don’t seem to have time for phone calls either and can only text back and junk.

          I think it’s going to be cooler over the next few days so the warmer weather didn’t last too long this time around.

          Tell me about this Salmon Pizza. Is there anything else on it?

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            42 months ago

            It has bocconcini and dill and capers… But I changed my mind and went for the two large traditional pizzas and garlic bread special for $39, and just got vegetarian and marinara. Felt full pretty quickly but this means dinner for another couple of days which is great.

  • @[email protected]
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    92 months ago

    Conditions are prime for ticket inspectors today. I haven’t seen any yet but I bet they are lurking in the shadows just waiting to attack

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      Yesterday evening, my partner and I were waiting at the tram stop with his dad, and I was complaining about the ticket inspectors. I went on about how they target students and non-white passengers, how they’re failed police officers, blah blah blah. I the looked over past them to the rest of the people at the stop, and realised there were four ticket inspectors there waiting too.

      I would have felt embarrassed except they’re shit and I was right haha

  • @[email protected]
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    In a few weeks, I’ll be staying at a hotel with a buffet breakfast included in the stay price. This hotel doesn’t come cheap, so I feel it’s my duty to squeeze every bit of value out of the price.

    Is it wrong if I take a few items away from the buffet for later enjoyment? I won’t be obvious about it - the take away items will be hidden in a tote bag I’ll bring in with me. Easy things to take away - some pastries, fruit, not hot food. I’ve never done this before, but planning how to get away with it has been exciting.

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      62 months ago

      I ‘stole’ a croissant once from a buffet at a 5 star in Indo.

      Then the next day stole a spring roll.

      I self flagellated for weeks after that.

    • CEOofmyhouse56
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      I reckon you wouldn’t be the first person to over load their plate and then decide to take some for Ron.

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      52 months ago

      You paid for it so take it.

      When I used to travel for work, I’d grab fruit from the breakfast buffet to take with me for the day. Bananas, kiwis apples …whatever whatever wasn’t cut was fair game

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    82 months ago

    I’ve worked out a potential study plan that would have me finish uni by the end of 2026. It would require doing 22 units over 6 teaching periods.

    It would completely cook my brain (if I even passed) but gosh it’s tempting. I just wanna get out of here and change careers. But the current plan is to finish end of 2027. Which really isn’t so bad.

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      I wouldnt rob myself of time with family, friends, gaming or whatever just to get to the goalposts quicker. edit: thats just my 2 cents having pursued uni part time whilst working full time myself.

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        Lucky for me most of those don’t apply, lol. But I do understand your point. I doubt I’ll do it, it’s nice to dream though.

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          42 months ago

          I say this from a place of kindness not judgement: it sounds like you’ve got some bigger things to focus on.

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        I’m looking at that option now. It’s a matter of what units are available and when, which is annoying.

  • @[email protected]
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    I finally figured out how to download things from github today properly. I was always going to the source code and thinking I had to download dependencies and compile things.

    Turns out you just go to Releases in the sidebar and it’s all there. Now I can play the recomped version of Majora’s Mask and use the Dark Souls gadget to fight bosses over and over again

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        I’m almost a little disappointed. I said to myself, ‘this will be the project where I figured out github’ and then it was too easy