• @SzylerOP
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    309 hours ago

    Always being told you are wrong growing up puts pressure on masking to always try to be right and gives an all-or-nothing thinking.

    It is OK to not be perfect. It is something I have recently accepted about myself, and hope others can as well. 🩷

    • @[email protected]
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      47 hours ago

      This is something I’ve discovered about myself lately and I’m now trying to tackle, and hopefully start to dismantle.

      I did a fuck up the other day and may have unintentionally offended someone (a combination of mental and sensory overload led to a louder than expected verbal outburst of frustration)

      I’ve put out an apology and have asked for an accommodation to help with the sensory aspect, but I’m still churning inside and over thinking because of my shitty social and communication ‘skills’

      Thanks for your comment, it sums things up ‘perfectly’ 🤣

    • @f314
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      89 hours ago

      I would argue that being bad at something is always a step towards getting better at it! Where else would you start?

  • @[email protected]
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    89 hours ago

    Conversely, don’t chastise or put down anyone that does take shortcuts for fun things where it just doesn’t matter.

  • @[email protected]
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    39 hours ago

    Being bad at something or not knowing something that you like is actually pretty nice because there is so much stuff you can still learn about it.

  • N3Cr0
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    28 hours ago

    I prefer doing it right on the first try before I forget how to fix my projects when they are falling apart.

  • @[email protected]
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    17 hours ago

    I’m going to have to say it: why would you super glue parts of a model? It’s a lot harder to use than poly cement?