• @Skyrmir
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    1416 days ago

    Never use a name during sex. Too much of a risk getting the wrong one.

  • @[email protected]
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    1016 days ago

    FWB situation. We didn’t talk often during sex. Blurted out “I love your pussy” and she stopped and said “what?”. I awkwardly restate it and she look’s sad. I realise she might have heard the “I love…” part and her mind jumped to what she wanted to hear. Feel real bad about it. We stop seeing each other shortly after.

    Even with us being very open about the casual nature of our relationship things happen.

    • @Mickey7OP
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      316 days ago

      Interesting. She should have been thrilled that you “loved” thrusting your cock into her pussy

      • @[email protected]
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        416 days ago

        It doesn’t sound real romantic, does it? We were having a bit more aggressive sex than our usual and dirty talk can be sexy, when not done so awkwardly.

  • @Mickey7OP
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    1016 days ago

    Had a girlfriend that was super into fucking but she just could not ever bring herself to use crude words or phrases. It was always “do you want to have sex?” She would never be able to say, “do you want to fuck?”

    Then during a fuck session we were in missionary and she was cumming, she screamed out, “Yes, Yes, fuck my pussy good!” I was shocked.

    When we both were in post sex mental clarity she seemed bothered by something. And she told me how embarrassed she was for shouting out. I tried to make her understand that whenever she talked “dirty” it got me incredible hot to fuck her.

    • @[email protected]
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      516 days ago

      I’ve been married over a decade, and my wife is still that way. Super embarrassed by things she’s not used to. We have come a long way from dating. I always encourage to be vocal, and I try my hardest to say at least a few really dirty things because even though she won’t say it outright I can absolutely tell she is super into it and loves it. Whenever she does say something I ask her to say it again, and it also helps her get more into it. Either way I love it more because I know it’s hard for her to do, so getting her to do it means it’s really good!

  • @[email protected]
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    616 days ago

    Never screamed during vaginal sex. The last time I had it, I said that we may as well stop. I don’t know if other gays are like me, but it isn’t my thing.

  • @[email protected]
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    212 days ago

    I say “ammaaa” a lot. It’s what I call my mom but my husband likes it and I can’t help it lol. I did get embarassed when I said it during the public sex and it kind of weirded out some girls that understood it i think.