Hope you have all had a lovely day! And if not and you want to vent or chat, then i’m here to listen xx

  • @OlapM
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    216 hours ago

    Busy day with the kids, house is a tip, but people are happy. Just need to find some me time today in all this, I got a few new books but need to finish my Waterloo book first. Weather looks good too, some leaf collecting and pruning perhaps. And Turkey curry!

    How did your day go?

    • @linzid83OP
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      23 hours ago

      Sounds lovely!! The mess will tidy, so don’t worry about that!! Mine was very chilled and relaxed!!

  • @[email protected]
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    323 hours ago

    Merry Christmas. I told my story too many times this past five days, but my wife filed for divorce on the 20th. Been super busy and productive these five days lawyers, support groups, counceling, groups of people, texting support friends, looking for places to live. Wife still being super cool about it and we are working together so both of us don’t suffer. 28 years.

    • @linzid83OP
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      13 hours ago

      I’m sorry to hear that. Do you have a good support network of friends/family? Don’t be afraid to reach out. 28 years is a long time together, so try to remember the good times.

    • @OlapM
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      316 hours ago

      Wow, 28 years is a long time to then end things. You should be proud of that, there was lots of good things in that time. I hope Christmas was a lovely day for you, and you’re exploring new traditions. This year I did a walk before Christmas dinner for instance, I would recommended as I’m that far north it is dark by 3:30!

      • @[email protected]
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        39 hours ago

        She and I are civil, getting along, and going to work together to make this fair and easy. We did have a normal Christmas together, but this was still looming over our heads. Scotland is my ancestors origins and one day, I hope to visit.

    • @linzid83OP
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      21 day ago

      Yeah its been very mild!! Got out with the dog this morning!