For the record I was posting in support of inclusive language, but pointing out that context and convention matter.

They seem to have even scrubbed my comment from their instance, lol.

  • مهما طال الليل
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    Is there a way to ban users before they comment/post?

    Preemptive banning of trolls is something Lemmy could use. I shouldn’t have to wait until they post.

  • @Duamerthrax
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    I got banned from lemmy.world/c/linuxsucks, which is one person’s mental illness, so who cares? Doesn’t stop me from calling them an idiot when they show up elsewhere.

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        That user showed up in the thread warning about someone spreading fud about Wikipedia to attack OP. Safe to say, whoever they are, they have multiple accounts for their obsessions.

    • @[email protected]
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      Linux is the expression of the collective mental illness of thousands of mentally ill computer hobbyists.

      • @[email protected]
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        Just because I am mentally ill mean doesn’t mean I use Linux. I mean I do use it, but not because I’m mentally ill.

  • @[email protected]
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    Wow, somebody that day was salty, and pretty much just looking for a comment to get mad about.

    There’s another FOSS project idea: a bot that detects Lemmy bans and sends you a notification about it.

    • @Buddahriffic
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      Another idea, take the mod log and allow voting on mod actions in a way that makes unpopular ones more visible. Give the users tools to evaluate moderators and admins to speed up the process of removing bad mods or users discovering they shouldn’t bother with an instance with bad admins. Or, with a different sorting method, it could highlight mods that aren’t power tripping losers.

      Maybe a similar system for reporting, since it wouldn’t surprise me if some mods feel like they need to act because of pressure from losers who power trip with the report button. You know, the kind that feels the need to inform people they’ve been reported.

      • @[email protected]
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        well you could just make a lemmy community about spurious bans and people could vote on it, and you could tag them in the comments somewhere….

  • @[email protected]
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    who cares. some of these communities are trash who don’t allow you to participate if you don’t align with their views. no different than reddit.

    • sunzu2
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      OP’s complaint is that he was not aware of the ban so he was commenting into nothing.

      This is really software issue, they can ban him, and he can block them back. No problem at all.

      The issue is that these servers are blocking new people and they might get pissed about not knowing it. This is UX issue for fediverse.

      On top of it, these bans are arbitrary and capricious for the most part, so again, this will piss anyone who does know how fediverse works.

      We got 50k AMU, with too many mods with nothing to do, so they find busy work.

      • @[email protected]
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        fair but I’ve been banned because I didn’t follow the flow of the political narrative of the conversation. I don’t consider myself squarely in one camp so I read, understand, and comment/criticize what I feel I want to engage with. I will admit i was auto banned from one instance and got no response from anyone, so I can relate to what your comment is getting at.

        • sunzu2
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          I didn’t follow the flow of the political narrative of the conversation.

          There is a lot of censorship on lemmy both personal bias and outright regime narrative support.

          That’s a huge issue, no doubt.

    • @[email protected]
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      dude is masculine in every definition i’ve found (looked it up) except for a city slicker new to a ranch…
      i’ve always known it to be gender neutral… but i have a female friend that gets offended every time someone calls her that.
      but the fact that it keeps happening means that it’s gender neutral to all of those people too (she’s a fairly feminine female).
      that said, it’s best to just call people terms that they are comfortable with, not ones that you’re comfortable calling them.
      personally, i find calling a single person they/them a little obtuse, but it’s not really that hard. (slightly confusing when there’s a question of whether im referring to them or a group of people).

      • @Buddahriffic
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        It depends on the context. The term has generally become more generic, but some contexts can put it back to its original gendered meaning.

  • @[email protected]
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    They could not in fact get over it, dude.

    They must feel very strongly about the word dude. I’m in your camp on it. It’s an exclamation, nothing more 🤷

  • @hightrix
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    Wow. That is about the tamest comment that’s ever gotten someone banned.

    • @[email protected]
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      I’ve seen worse for just for putting criticism in threads asking for user’s “questions, concerns, requests and issues”. And at the admin level, in a major instance where they never really apologized or corrected themselves until a couple of months later without really assuming any blame.

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    I just checked my username in the mod log… Apparently I’ve been banned from 13 different communities. Interestingly none on hexbear despite habitually going there and accusing everyone of huffing paint/glue/other solvent abuse.

    Edit: on closer inspection, apart from one from blåhaj they’re all from Lemmy.ml so I guess it doesn’t count.

    • @recklessengagement
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      How do you check your name in the mod log? I feel as though I’ve been pretty chill but I’m curious to see if I’ve stepped on anyone’s toes.

      • @[email protected]
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        You called someone’s reply rude and a mod removed your comment. It’s the only thing in the mod log under your username.

        • @recklessengagement
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          Ah, I remember that comment.

          Thank you for saving me the trouble.

      • @Jumi
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        If you find out let me know too please.

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          @[email protected] if you go to the bottom of the page on the default web frontend, there’s a link to the modlog and you can search your username.

          I have no idea how well federation of modlogs works exactly, though. I usually check on ml to see if I’ve been banned again on ml (you don’t have to be logged in).

          • @Ledivin
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            I’m apparently banned from some vegan community because I argued against them when they said they’re more oppressed than black people in America 😂🤣😂🤣

        • @Doorbook
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          You can scroll down and you would see modlog inside it you can search by user

  • @dukeofdummies
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    I’m just glad I’m not the only one who views dude as androgynous.

    I thought I was one of the few.

    • @BowtiesAreCool
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      I find it androgynous and will use it for anyone, but if anyone told me they were uncomfortable with me referring to them that way, I would stop, as with anything. It’s simply decent to refer to people as they prefer.

    • @Sheldan
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      I find these always interesting to read in the following sentence: ‘I fucked a bunch of dudes’.

      Do you also believe that this sentence would work for you? (Assuming you are a heterosexual)

      Because I always thought I was in the ‘Dude is androgynous’ camp, but after considering that sentence: I don’t think so anymore

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        Conflation due to context?

        I think sexual activity adds implied gender relationships that shift how ‘dude’ is interpreted. While ‘dude’ can feel androgynous in casual contexts, in a phrase like ‘fucked a bunch of dudes,’ the sexual framing amplifies its masculine connotations. This shows how cultural norms around sexuality and gender can override attempts at neutrality.

      • @[email protected]
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        It’s male-leaning, although it gets used androgynously.

        If someone personally didn’t want to be called dude, I’d avoid it. Otherwise it’s not worth freaking out over.

  • @gmtom
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    Wouldn’t be a leftist platform if they didn’t spend the majority of their time and effort self policing based on their purity tests instead of doing something actually productive

    • @LovableSidekick
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      The People’s Front of Judea vs the Judean People’s Front!

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      I still remember watching that socialist convention that spent an hour doing nothing but teaching people to wave their hands in the air to signal applause and running someone down that dared to use the word “guys”. Point of Personal Privilege, my ass.