• @[email protected]
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      62 hours ago

      Reading this after the thread from that german kid wondering why Americans keep using racial qualifiers like white, black, etc really brings the point home.

  • Justas🇱🇹
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    67 hours ago

    “I will overcome.”

    “I keep dragging myself along.”

    “Somehow, I remain alive.”

    “I will perish, but not like this, hopefully, not today.”

    “Everything is shit and I think we should all get a grenade and end it all.”

    … and other reasons why you don’t ask a Lithuanian how’s it going for them.

    • @foofiepie
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      44 hours ago

      I’ve taken to saying ‘adequately, thanks’.

  • @JigglySackles
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    68 hours ago

    I like dropping, “It’s not, but how are you?” an easy and more polite way of saying “you don’t give two shits about me, so let’s talk about you.”

  • @freewheel
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    79 hours ago

    “Moving forward at a rate of 1 second per second.”

    Usually at work, in meetings.

  • @ebolapie
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    2012 hours ago

    “I’m livin’ the dream (and would like to wake up)” is a personal favorite of mine.

    • @PugJesusOP
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      1013 hours ago

      Like “Dad responses”, whiteness is a state of mind 🧘‍♂️

        • @PugJesusOP
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          Like “Dad responses”, these are just common cliche ways for white American men to respond to questions - in this case, “How are things going?”

          In this case, the responses listed, while seemingly anodyne, are generally given out as a means of downplaying one’s own troubles - “It’s going” being “It’s going badly enough that I don’t want to talk about it in any more detail” - and “Hanging in there” being “I’m managing, but only barely.”

          So both, while not being a cause for alarm by a surface reading, are actually (commonly) given out when significantly distressed.

      • @FMT99
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        213 hours ago

        Out of curiosity can you do the other colors too?

        • @PugJesusOP
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          712 hours ago

          Unfortunately, I’m not the original creator of the post; you’d have to ask them for more droll observations of common American responses (and their deeper meanings) by race.

          • @[email protected]
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            12 hours ago

            I am an American (sorry) and this doesn’t seem like it should have anything to do with race… “How’s it going” is pretty commonly used across races in the US.