The jarring contrast between those holidaying and those hurting is hard to bear for many in Hawaii.

  • @derf82
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    111 year ago

    I get that what they have been through is awful, but what are people supposed to do? Twiddle their thumbs while waiting for a flight home?

    I also guarantee there are kama’aina and even kanaka enjoying the water as well.

    • grahamsz
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      61 year ago

      Yeah it’s a pretty weird standard. Look how many migrants die in the Mediterranean every week and people have no issue swimming there.

      Certainly if you have a trip to Maui booked in the next few months you should consider cancelling, but if you were there when this happened then I don’t really see the issue

    • Cylusthevirus
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      51 year ago

      This is just how some people respond to grief. There is a comfort in anger, in having a target for the pain grief inflicts on us. The tourists are there, and choosing to see their behavior as disrespectful is a way to focus on something besides the desolation. It’s not the best coping mechanism but I understand it.

  • rhythmisaprancer
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    41 year ago

    If my house burns down, it has a tremendous effect on me and my circle. If someone else’s house burns down, it may not. We both need support in our individual cases, but life goes on. This is what therapy is for in my opinion, to not let others unaffiliated have a negative impact upon us. These folks experienced something traumatic, but I don’t know how much impact that needs to have on the greater island economy. I have never been there and do not know the culture.