• JokeDeity
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    Wait. This is unappealing to you guys? I’ll take the goth mommy then.

    • @sock
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      its unappealing when i want notes and not sex. sometimes i just wanna hangout and not bone it doesnt mean youre not attractive its just midnight im really high and I want to sleep.

      this is a hypothetical about my ex and i

    • @chakan2
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      1410 months ago

      It’s fun for a minute…then…well…it’s kind of where “don’t stick your dick in crazy” came from.

    • RaivoKulli
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      It’s weird and unappealing if this just comes out of the blue when you ask for notes (and you’re not into her)

  • @Potatos_are_not_friends
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    This is what kids call goth now?

    Goth used to be all Satan and death and sometimes kittens.

    Is it all kittens now?

    • @[email protected]
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      Goth is now just what the E-Girls with black lipstick call themselves. Gone are the days of Bauhaus, true Goth is with Bela Lugosi now.

      Same happened to punk, just 20yr ago. And it’ll happen to your subgenre!

        • @[email protected]
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          Oh for sure, but musical genres are different for a reason. Much of what is claimed to be punk these days is simply “a different genre,” and it should be ok to be “a different genre than punk.” You can see it as gatekeeping all you like, but My Chemical Romance (commonly claimed to be punk in my area by the people who I am talking about, “those who don’t know what they are talking about”) is as punk as Buck Owens (nobody makes that claim, I use him to point out the ridiculousness of everything having to be specifically punk regardless of the actual genre.)

          Just call yourselves something else if you are something else, just like you would with everything else. You don’t hear me claiming Discharge is the best goth band around, do you? I’m not proclaiming to be a goth because I like D-Beat am I? So why am I the asshole for expecting others to learn the differences in genres and subcultures? What, all heavy music and black clothing is the same to you? That’s subcultureist!

          (Btw if it isn’t clear that this debate in which I am correct is as serious as pineapple on pizza, it ain’t that deep. I’m still right though, you can be free to have your own thing without claiming to be something you’re not, it’s ok, it’s actually better!)

      • @[email protected]
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        Punk ain’t dead, punk is just busy scrubbing the bathroom because the in-laws are coming for tea.

        • @[email protected]
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          Oh I know it isn’t “dead dead,” good shit is still being made, lot of it actually, and there’s some good gothy music being made too albeit more synthy stuff, but they’ve been bastardized from their original forms to the point of unrecognizability in some circumstances to the degree where people’s favorite “punk band” is My Chemical Aromas or some such nonsense.

          I just personally think that rather than attach themselves poorly to an already developed subgenere/subculture, they should just call themselves their own thing. It’d be like if I said I’m a country star but all I do is spoken word, “no, you’re a spoken word star, and that is fantastic, but country music is one thing and you are another.”

          Frankly imo, that is the charitable way to view it too, because otherwise I’d view them to be like the “punk” version of dudes in cowboy gear and silverados on their way to their accounting jobs.

      • uphillbothways
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        pretty sure goth died to EDM in the 90’s. it was a weird transition, too. from somber to dark rave, and it happened really fast. probably in large part due to the matrix movies and hot topic.

          • uphillbothways
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            Good to hear. Tbf I haven’t followed it in a long time. My club days are long behind me. Knees are all creaky and I don’t drink like I used to.

      • sweetviolentblush [they/them]
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        Nah, real goths are still around. We still listen to all the classics, and most of those genres are still alive and have newer albums. Some of the newish (or thriving) goth genres are: minimal synth, witch house, neofolk, dark jazz, dark trap, deathstep, electropunk/synth punk. We’re just lurking in the shadows, which is kinda an obvious place for us to be when you think about it 😉

      • @SasquatchBanana
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        Punk scene is still active in my area and they are based af. Some Nazis tried to get in the scene and they were stomped away.

        • @[email protected]
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          My area has a bit going on too, and kicking out nazi punks is par for the course, but that isn’t what I’m talking about. I’m talking about people who’s “favorite punk band” is like my chemical romance or a day to remember, which are not punk.

      • Cait
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        They dont call themselves Goth, they get called Goth, as Seen in the meme

        • @[email protected]
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          310 months ago

          X to doubt.

          Dated one. Got stuck with them during the pandemic matter of fact. They most certainly do call themselves goth, because thick makeup in the style of “internet” and a pair of fishnets makes one goth now.

          Sad state of affairs at the Ministry fan club.

      • @Son_of_dad
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        I love me some 1970s British Punk

        • @[email protected]
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          Hell yeah me too (but if we’re gonna have this fight, Iggy started it! Lol). I don’t mean to say that there aren’t punks still, or good shit being made, but you gotta know where to find it and people who claim to be “punk” have to pass a litmus test to find out if you’re the same type of punk as eachother (which is to say, of newer stuff would you rather listen to Vivisected Numbskulls or My Chemical Romance (or whatever those kids are into these days, idk because it is also a decidedly different genre people just proclaim to be punk and then you get called a gatekeeper because you recognize the difference in musical genres, fuck it I guess Buck Owens is punk too then.)

      • @Zithero
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        I mean, can be both.

        There’s an insta model who’s full Goth/Satan to the point of having a Leviathan Cross on her insanely large fake tits and I had to at least shrug that she’s doing the full “Goth Bimbo” aesthetic… Like, full Satan Worship and evening full on committing sins of Lust and Pride at the same time.

        Duel welding Sin.

    • @[email protected]
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      410 months ago

      They insert themselves everywhere nowadays. Still doesn’t mean goth is the same as furry.

      But yes, horse dicks Harry, Horse dicks everywhere.

  • @Son_of_dad
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    8210 months ago

    This just makes me want to. That’s the start of a great conversation

  • srasmus
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    8110 months ago

    You guys don’t know what you’re missing.

    • RaivoKulli
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      910 months ago

      Asks for notes

      Receives notes and fetish shit

      I’ll be glad to miss out lol

  • Red
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    2010 months ago

    Am I the only one thinking this is fake because its a 32MB file?

    Email usually caps out at 25MB…

      • Red
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        810 months ago

        Yeah but I thought the consensus was 25M.

        Which provider allows more than? 25M?

        • @Phantom3805
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          Microsoft 365 allows admins to set the maximum to 150mb, but it’s rare that anyone would

          • @kautau
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            Plus, receiving email servers can set their limit. Many email servers won’t accept attachments that large

      • Red
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        110 months ago

        Do you have a reference for that? Gmail is 25…

          • Red
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            210 months ago

            Ah! How interesting… work$ has been a Google shop for a while thus the 25m limit. Good work for o365 to enable the increase.

            Email is such a fickle system. I couldn’t imagine mobiles downloading 150m attachments when they only have a few GB of space…

            Maybe im just too old…

            • Unaware7013
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              Yeah, the big use I’ve seen for the max size limit was sending cad drawings to/from vendors and clients. No mobile usage involved, just big files that needed transmitted to allow jobs to progress.

            • @[email protected]
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              110 months ago

              With 128 already the most common storage size and 256 becoming that in the next few years, I don’t think a few GBs of free space is right

              • Red
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                110 months ago

                I agree. It’s just I forget that people use IMAP and choose to not download their data to their devices and leave it on servers that they don’t control. 🤷

                Also at 150mb, and maybe a 10gb storage allowance it doesn’t leave much room for the actual text content 😂

          • @[email protected]
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            110 months ago

            i usually set the limit to 10MB and tell the users to fuck off when they want to send something bigger. there are more convenient methods to transfer larger files.

    • @TaintLord9000
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      2210 months ago

      Honey, my middle and high school years were spent among bi and gay furry girls that would talk like this all the time but also they would scratch and hiss at each other.