As the title says, my 4 year old has been clenching her jaw a lot in the past few months. I think it started as stress and has now developed into a habit.
As for the cause of her stress, we’ve had some major life changes in the past few months. Her grandparents and cousin came to stay with us from the other side of the world for about 6 weeks and went back about a month ago. We also welcomed her new baby sister 2 months ago. She had been an only child before then.
I’ve been doing all I can to spend time with her and maintain our relationship while juggling the exhaustion that comes from a new baby, but it seems like she needs more. Her father, my mother, and my best friend who is practically a surrogate mother to her have stepped in a lot to help, but the jaw clenching remains.
So my question to other parents of multiples is how to help her adjust. Any tips or advice would be welcome.
Maybe try to involve in taking care of her sister in small ways such us pick up a cloths for sister to wear or sing her favourite songs to the newborn. Make her feel important and praise her help an choices. Also give her 1on1 attention when you can, make it your special time. I was also firstborn with bigger age gap, it was kinda strange not having all the attention but I got used pretty quickly. I find my brother to be little sh*t sometimes, but I love him to death. Just don’t stress over it, you will do great
That’s so much change in a short period of time. Significant figures in her life coming and going, then no longer being the solo kiddo.
Mine was younger than yours when we welcomed our second, so frustration and sadness probably emerged differently. I know it’s hard to have a routine activity to do with only the two of you but that’s my only idea right now.
I am not a doctor and I haven’t researched it but I heard, that this can be normal as the new teeth are forming and the need to be wiggled around. At least that’s what our dentist said to our 4.5 hear old
