cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/40736312
okay so listen i always thought gay guys were actually sexually attracted to other guys and that would be gross right but i just read this book called born that way after all and dr ham and the fatheaded guy suggest that gay guys actually just cant get girls or dont like girls because maybe their balls are messed up and then they do butt stuff with other guys to compensate and this thought never occurred to me
so youre telling me that when my wife wont put out which is always now i could just do butt stuff with guys even though guys dont get me hard and thats fine and thats not really actually gay so long as i dont have the hots for dudes
these authors are pastors i think so that means they know what theyre talking about so what do you think
i dont know a lot about mgtow yet but this kind of life hack seems right up our alley

