Yes, same guy again but as a man of color, I found it very easy to hook up with white women at my college. So easy that it feels like finding a rock than a gold nugget( make it of what you wish my metaphor means.) Why is that? I even find it hard to date my own race at my college, that I don’t want to put up with them. I’m 6’2, I work out, I’m a good talker, I’m a good listener, and I have a good gpa? Why is it hard to date women of color than white women? Indian women hardly acknowledge me when trying to talk to them, (mestizo) hispanic women lie about not speaking English, east Asian women are so white worshipping that they even declined their own men, black women are very stubborn to hang out with, and (half black) biracial women are very white worshipping like east Asian women. You know what? All of them are very hypocritical because I would find them having great conversations with white guys at my college. I find very funny how they complain about Eurocentricism, white women being the pedelstal, and men of color put whiteness on a pedelstal on the internet, but they do stuff like this? Also, Assassin, fuck you, mate. If you are reading this, GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE.

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          I would literally just say hi to them or how was your day. Then i would talk about something irrelevant. White women would only make great conversations with me. The rest try to go away.

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            My experience isn’t the same as yours; my luck is pretty equal across white, hispanic and asian women (I’m white). So maybe white women find you compelling due to you being different than what they are used to.

            Another factor that I didn’t really know about until recently is black culture LOVES to shame black women who date non-black men. I’m not sure if it’s entirely men who propagate this or not, but I saw a LOT of it on Bluesky. So even if a black woman found you compelling, she might stay away to avoid rustling the feathers of her friends or family.

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                The only Indian woman I’ve dated was a particularly outgoing poly woman. I have a feeling she’s not the norm for Indian women. So I don’t know, except to maybe make profiles on dating apps and keep your eye out for them there.

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    I only like asian women and white women with low self esteem. I still haven’t been able to bag one but Ima keep trying.