I am NOT OP. Original post by u/liberalfilmnerd76 in r/advice

I want to start calling my adoptive mom “mom” instead of her name - 30 November 2022

My bio parents put me (15m) up for adoption when I was born so I was always in foster homes until I was twelve. I had a teacher Janice (33f) who was my home room teacher.

Janice found out about me being a foster kid and how I wished I had a family. Janice had also been a foster kid growing up and so long story short she then became my foster mom and adopted me.

Janice is the best mom I could have ever asked for. She has been so unbelievably kind and loving to me and I absolutely adore her. The problem is that I don’t call her mom, I just call her Janice. I want to start calling her mom but have no idea how to without making it awkward. Please help me internet strangers.

Update:

So…… was not expecting this big of a response. Thank all of you for responding and some of the ideas made me really tear up. Anyways this morning I went to Janice and I said “good morning mom” she just looked at me and started crying then came over and hugged me and kissed my forehead. I hugged her back and she said I could call her whatever made me comfortable and that she loves me more than anything. I just replied with “I love you mom”.

So yeah hope this update makes someone’s day because it certainly made mine. Have a great day.

Also made a typo I’m 15 not 16 lol

Reminder - I am not the original poster. Original post by u/liberalfilmnerd76 in r/advice On Reddit.

  • @Limeey
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    201 year ago

    i remember when this got posted. it was nice. life is so hard and so difficult sometimes, it’s nice to see when humans can reach each other and show that level of love.

    • @SomeoneElseOP
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      161 year ago

      I thought I’d copy some of my favourites over here while I still have Apollo. This one warmed my heart!