i like to think my time involuntarily cosplaying as a cishet man would help in this situation. it wont.
If anything, AMABs are not taught what it’s like to be desired and sought after, making us even more useless when people are actually into us.
I was full on deer-in-headlights mode with a woman flirting not 20 minutes ago 😭
I bet your embarrassed expression was really cute ;3
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just like that 😘
I never thought about this, but it explains my luck with trying to chat up trans ladies :-/
If you flirt with us and we flirt back, go ahead and hit us with a “wanna fuck?”
It’s the only way we’ll get the message.
Duly noted o7
who is teaching people that… like specifically, so i can go get taught finally lol
It’s more learning from experience and the social norms of being a girl. Boys ask you out and chase after you. The longer you publicly present as a woman, the more you’ll have people sell you out. This applies to platonic contexts as well, as women are seen as more approachable than men.
All that said, sapphics are notorious for being useless, so I wouldn’t feel too bad about missing that a lesbian was hitting on you. Men hitting on you is to be expected, but plenty of straight women are just friendly so it’s really hard to tell.
Such a wholesome friendship between women /hj
Who’s the artist? Did you draw this yourself?
Source is ExtraWhippedComics
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