• SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    22 hours ago

    You are a grade A shit stirrer in that way.

    (This is a compliment BTW, those weird puritanical types can go do one - keep it up!)

  • velma@sh.itjust.works
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    1 day ago

    Oh hey you, I didn’t expect to see you in here! Welcome!

    Cognitive dissonance is common especially amongst those that don’t do the work of examining their own biases and prejudices.

    • did_you_find_violetsOP
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      1 day ago

      thank you for coming to my aid in that “girls get made fun of for everything might as well do what you want lol” debacle💖

      • velma@sh.itjust.works
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        1 day ago

        Not a problem at all! I couldn’t stand to see those guys tear you apart just because they got all up in their feels and couldn’t handle it.

        We love a good meme in here :)

  • femtek@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    Because it’s not for them in public and it makes them feel feelings that they can’t act on while online they can do whatever they want.

    Of only they would be nice and build trust they could go to places where people want to be touched.

  • greenskye@lemmy.zip
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    23 hours ago

    Encountering this attitude in the haremlit space was strange. This is literally a genre about erotica and unconventional relationships… So why are you being so puritan?

  • brave_lemmywinks
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    1 day ago

    Why do people like something in one context, and not something in another context.

    • velma@sh.itjust.works
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      1 day ago

      Mhm there’s definitely some men that can’t stand to see a woman acting on her own accord, but will obsess over another woman doing the same as long as it’s for men.

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        17 hours ago

        Yeah I think the commonality in these behaviors is that they serve to enforce the social order. Whether they realize it or not, that’s what they’re doing, and viewing it through that lens makes it much more clear what’s going on.

    • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      20 hours ago

      You too seem to be missing some context. This is a women’s only community. Please refrain from commenting here in future. Thanks!

    • Wren@lemmy.today
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      1 day ago

      Have you by any chance seen the community rules in the sidebar?