I need some good news to lift my otherwise shitty situation. What was the last thing that brought you to tears from happiness?
My Autodesk login is attached to my old student email, which I guess finally got deleted by my old college. I was incredibly grateful that I had a PC that was still actively logged into Fusion 360 when I learned this. I was able to preserve and export all the 3D design and modeling work I’ve done over the last 8 years before I get locked out of that login for good. I don’t use 3D modeling every day, so it was very lucky that I realized my login was now sitting in limbo while I still temporarily had access to everything.
Very grateful for that. There’s hundreds of hours worth of work there.
Back when my son was a baby, I used to play cricket with him. I’d take his feet and rub the soles against each other and go “CHIRP CHIRP!”. But as he grew older, he naturally didn’t enjoy this as much, and we’d do it less and less. He’d sometimes still ask me to do it, but occasions got scarce. He’s almost six years old now, and i had kind of accepted that he had grown out of it. Well, yesterday in the evening, just before he went to sleep, he asked me to do it again, and we both thoroughly enjoyed it, and we laughed, and it was beautiful. It may be the last time, as he grows older and won’t want to do such childish things anymore, but the pure fact that I got to experience it one more time AND KNOW it was the last time and I got to experience and savor it very consciously made me enjoy it just SO MUCH more, it brought tears of joy to my eyes. Yeah OK, I’ll admit it, I ugly cried. Hard. And I’ll cherish this memory forever.
The Tate Brothers being arrested.
My band played a show recently with a bunch of more experienced bands and we got a lot of really nice compliments after our set. More than one person made it a point to make eye contact and say something like “seriously, that was really original and cool”. I’ll ride this high for weeks, if not months.
In April I was diving in Cozumel. Being able to see things like this was truly amazing.
Not to be a kill-joy, but do as much shit like this as you can now, before it’s too late. Climate change is going to kill all of that.
My son’s high school graduation. I want to say it was the proudest day in my whole got dang life, but it is so hard to pick between all of the milestones over the years.
I bawled my eyes out when I got home (and was alone), for at least 90 minutes. His progression into becoming a proud adult man brings me joy like nothing I ever thought was.
The Tates being arrested.
I feel like I was able to calm my dog today after a big thunderstorm
what made me really happy is that I realized that she trusts me and feels calm with me
she’s a really smart and sensitive dog
I haven’t cried in decades, but I got very excited last week when I get a call back from a company I applied to without even a vacancy. Not the first time I applied there, I just like the company. I’m a SWE with 0 YOE, so the market sucks for me. I’ve been job hunting for 6 months, with a couple interviews, but no concrete offers. I do have a couple years of semi-relevant experience (where I’m currently employed) and that’s what they liked in my profile. Now I’m excited to see if this leads anywhere.
A friend of mine that I’m growing closer to asked if I wanted to borrow her house while she was away on vacation so I could feel a bit about being a homeowner. I have recently started looking at buying one after living in apartments for the last 20+ years. Just that invitation and handing over responsibility made my heart melt. Made me all woozy-warm-cozy inside.
My daughter sprinting across the playground to give me a cuddle when I collected her from preschool.
That was earlier in the week.
I cannot remember. It’s been so long
Yesterday was shite but I got to enjoy this with a critter who doesn’t normally do laps.
Two days ago I invited some new friends to a rave and one of them said they were actually already on the fence about going, but if I was going it must be cooler then they thought. I wish I could frame that.
The rave was also lit and we had a great time, but I usually enjoy those.
Towards the end of last year I bought a home. It wouldn’t have been possible without my father’s passing just a month into his retirement and leaving me everything he had; it wasn’t much but just enough. He was never very close, to the extent that all I have from him is a couple of small statues and photographs – and now my home.
