Just a quick post to remind my older girlies that its never too late ❤️

Im 32, struggle a lot with having waited too long or being too late. Its not true! Its never too late to be happy. Its never too late to stop hating yourself. Its never too late, regardless of what other people say or think.

You do this for you and your happiness and noone should take that from you.

I LOVE OUR OVER 30’S OVER 40’S AND BEYOND! It shouldnt be lost on the younger people that trans people didnt make it to those ages historically, and im so happy your here now ❤️❤️

Plus, some of our most gorgeous girls are over 30 and 40 😍😍

Ily all, dont let the bastards grind you down! ❤️❤️❤️

  • nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    14 days ago

    GO OFF BESTIE!

    its never too late, there is still time. you only get one life, live it to the fullest :3

    you look great, love the sink mess lmao

    • Brooke (She/Her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      IM YOUR BESTIE!? WOOOOOT 🥰😂

      dont know if you saw, but there was a pretty terrible no good awfule post earlier. This is mostly in response to that lol. It got nuked

      Getting compliments from you makes my whole day! Plus i got called ma’am in a store to for first time just 😍🥰😍🥰😍

      Tyty your the best ❤️

  • Hildegard (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    14 days ago

    Some people say it can be too late to transition, but they can no longer say it here. Thanks Ada and collaborators!

    You look great, but I’ve seen this outfit at least 3 times. Do you have more??

    • Brooke (She/Her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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      Its different promise!

      Just love this button up, thats the only same thing as yesterday

      It perfect for when its not too hot and not too cold

      Plus it says “tempt me with a good time” on the back ❤️❤️

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    Hear hear ❤️ it’s never too late to feel the best you have ever felt in your life, I am 49 and I felt so good out and about today, it was a blast. I am so proud of all the beautiful 30-40+ years olds we have here too ❤️ Clean up girl 😄 but I can’t talk I just did mine for the pictures I took lol

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          Its sucks to see really. I genuinely hope Sidal and Hated from the other day both find happiness in their lives. I hope they find peace. ❤️

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              You do you! I have this really like zen positivity about things like that. But i also dont mind other feelings about stuff like that, feel what you feel! ❤️

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                I normally do about most things, too, but I do not suffer bullies, but I gotta remember online ones are different. That’s a great attitude to have ❤️ and I strive for it, I think I’ve got to a pretty good place with MOST things ;)

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    I woke up this morning crying, thinking of the time I’ve lost transitioning at 38. It’s something I will always feel a deep pain about. The only thing sadder would be waiting any longer. I’ve never been happier than I am now.

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      Aww girl im sorry. I wont lie those feelings hit and when they do they hit hard. I wish we didnt have to feel that 💔

      As they say, the best time to start is yesterday, the second best time is today. Itd be worse if we didnt do it at all. The amount that i hated myself before all this, idk that i woulda survived past my 30’s. It was horrible, painful, and just made me not want to live. And i never knew why!!

      I thank gaia every day for finding the trans communities, egg_irl, traaaaaaaaans, mtf, trans_joy, all of it

      I wouldnt have survived otherwise

      Im glad youre here, im sorry you woke crying. I hope you have an absolutely beautiful day and everything you want and more happens today ❤️❤️

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        Thank you sweetie. I’m trying to keep reminding myself that I’m going through puberty again right now and big emotions are a part of it.

        So glad we both made it xx

        • Brooke (She/Her)@lemmy.blahaj.zoneOP
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          Omg girl the emotional swings are crazzzyyy

          I cried at a trans person being accepted by family today, wasnt even real, just an animated video

          I also cried at a song thats not even sad really the other day 😭

          Im a mess lol

          Im glad your here tooo ❤️

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            Kindof love being able to cry ngl. It was one of the effects I was most excited for and I really love it. I cry so much now. Mostly happy cries but today was a big sad. I’m through the other side of it now mostly. Night night Brooke (from UK timezone)

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              I love being able to access that part of myself too its wonderful, can get annoying sometimes tho 😂

              Nighty night girly sweet dreams! ❤️❤️

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    14 days ago

    A particular amazing digital circus character should’ve seen this lovely post.