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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/spinningarrowxo on 2023-06-24 22:24:09+00:00.
Me and my sister live in different cities. Last weekend she came to stay over with her partner. They don’t have a bath in their flat so they were excited to use the bath, however I didn’t expect them to then go and have a bath together. That is not something I would personally feel comfortable doing around a guest’s house, and I found it weird and to be honest a bit rude. But I have no idea if that’s the general consensus or a normal thing to do? Am I the asshole if I tell her that I found it a bit rude and to not do it in future?
Yeah, you are the asshole. Why would you care? It’s just a bath. Nothing wrong with sharing one.
YTA - When hosting guests I want them to feel as comfortable as possible. If that involves them bathing together that is fine with me and Im happy they get a treat that they normally cant have at home.
If it made me uncomfortable i would make excuses to leave and give them some privacy.
