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The original was posted on /r/AmItheAsshole by /u/Unlucky_Positive_536 on 2023-06-26 19:19:05+00:00.

28f and I’m 33 weeks pregnant. My husband and I have a 6yo son and a 11yo daughter. My mom took the kids for a few days so I could rest cause I haven’t slept much more than 3hrs a night for going on 2 weeks (pregnancy bladder and insomnia) and my husband works really long hours (12+ hour shifts daily, as he’s a manager and the company is short staffed). She picked up the kids last night.

So basically, I texted my husband at around 11am and told him I was going for a nap. I hadn’t gotten to bed before 4am and was up at 7am. I fell asleep almost instantly so I didn’t get any of the texts my husband sent me. Well, at like maybe 1pm I wake up to the dog being tossed on the bed with me, who proceeded to “get” my face. Shes not allowed on the bed so when she is up there, she acts like a psycho. I push her off of me in a sleep daze and look up to see my husband, smirking. I asked him why the fuck he would do that and he goes “she just wanted momma snuggles and I wanted to bring you out for lunch”. So I said “Are you fucking serious right now?” got up and stormed out of the room. I was absolutely livid. I was finally getting sleep and that’s disrupted by a dog smothering my face because he decided to leave work early to “treat me” now that I don’t have the kids and it doesn’t sit well with me. He knows how tired I am.

He says I’m an AH because he “just wanted to do something nice for me” but I argue that if he wanted to do something nice for me, he probably shouldn’t have thrown the dog on the bed with me, knowing how she would act, when I was finally getting some sleep.