I eat lunch in the cafeteria at work. Sometimes i like to watch videos of cats doing funny things on youtube during my break. The thing is, i don’t wear headphones and sometimes people give me looks. AITA for watching videos in the cafeteria without headphones?

  • @Rhoeri
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    461 year ago

    100% yes.

  • @Junkers_Klunker
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    411 year ago

    Absolutely yes, how in considerate do you have to be to not realize that most people do not want to listen to your video during their break.

    • @[email protected]OP
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      -191 year ago

      what about folks having conversation during break? i imagine your response would be the same for this because most people don’t wanna hear you talk about your weekend with a coworker

      • @[email protected]
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        291 year ago

        Every person involved in a conversation has to be able to hear each other speak. The only one listening to your videos is you.

        If you had earphones, you wouldn’t need to listen to their discussion anyway, as the earphones would take care of both problems simultaneously, making you the only one that hears your videos, and making sure you can’t hear other people’s conversations.

        Being considerate won’t get you noticed, but being inconsiderate certainly will, in all the wrong ways.

      • @Carnelian
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        161 year ago

        If they’re being loud or obnoxious then yes that is rude. But the vast majority of people are not disturbed by normal background chatter. In fact the opposite is true, many people are so comforted by the human voice that they listen to podcasts to fall asleep.

        Whereas listening to a video out loud is always obnoxious and disruptive. Especially when there are numerous inexpensive ways for you to avoid doing it (headphones, eat somewhere else, mute and rely on captions, do something on your phone besides watch a video)

  • Bleeping Lobster
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    241 year ago

    You’re not an asshole, you’re just inconsiderate. If you were an asshole, you wouldn’t be asking for the advice of strangers and even considering that you’re in the wrong.

    Wear headphones, or watch the vids on mute. You can imagine the “Mrrreow” and “Prrph?” noises they make

  • Zellith
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    151 year ago

    The fact you need to ask this makes me wonder what other ways you are an asshole.

  • magnetosphere
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    1 year ago

    Afraid so, but I appreciate that you’re thinking about it enough to ask here. We all do obnoxious stuff sometimes. Still, don’t make other people listen to the videos you’re watching.

  • @[email protected]OP
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    1 year ago

    idk why the topic is being down voted. down voting topics makes people not want to share their experiences with the community

    • @morphballganon
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      1 year ago

      Imagine if you had to endure listening to your coworker watch some crap you didn’t care about. That coworker must be a jerk, right? Assuming you want to be forced to hear their crap? You’re just trying to eat your lunch, man. Why’s your coworker gotta make everyone’s day harder than it already is?

      Do you understand now?

  • @hedgehogging_the_bed
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    1 year ago

    In a public setting, the only people who should be able to hear a video are the people who agreed to watch it.

    If you are the only one watching something you need to use headphones so only you can hear it.

    If you are showing it to a friend then you use the speakers with low volume so two people seated closely can hear it but someone at the next table cannot.

    Remember the people working there serving the food and the others eating there did not ask to watch the video and should not need to hear it because they cannot or do not want to watch it with you.