• @[email protected]
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    411 year ago

    I used to live by that rule, but it turns not everyone likes to be treated the way I like to be treated. So now I just ask how they want to be treated.

    Just a trick I picked up from the BDSM subs ;)

    • @[email protected]
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      Exactly. I had to learn this too. I am unusual in a number of ways. When I treat people how I want to be treated I am often mistreating them and damaging the relationship. People are different and need different things. You have to communicate rather than unilaterally apply your self-empathy.

    • @[email protected]
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      101 year ago

      Yeah, there’s a lot of things IDGAF about myself (like my birthdays, etc.) that make it easy to forget that for other people it means a lot. So even if I’m a cool acquaintance I’ll be a shitty friend :(. I’m working on that

    • ivanafterall
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      21 year ago

      the golden rule

      In case you didn’t grow up with it, the golden rule comes from Jesus’ saying that no matter what it is, there exists pornography of it on the internet.

  • Iapar
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    91 year ago

    Nope, because what you want might differ from what they want. So the rule is: treat people how they want to be treated.

  • cry
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    81 year ago

    This has been my number 1 rule since I learned I was being an arse.

  • @gmtom
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    41 year ago

    If I treated people how I want to be treated I would get arrested

    • @Potatos_are_not_friends
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      41 year ago

      Ah sorry I’m late. Was too busy sharing with people how awesome this fight club concept is. What’s the first rule of fight club?

      • @[email protected]
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        The first rule is don’t talk about the first club. The second rule is DO NOT TALK ABOUT THE FIGHT CLUB!

        I always forget most others but the 8th (which is the last one) is if you’re new, you have to fight.

  • @[email protected]
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    31 year ago

    That rule sounds nice, but people can have very different expectations. This is a rule that shouldn’t be followed strictly.

  • @AeonFelis
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    21 year ago

    What if I have self destructive tendencies?

  • @Feathercrown
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    11 year ago

    “What is the first rule of Hero’s Duty?”

    “Uhhh… no cuts, no buts, no coconuts?”

    bonk “NEVER mess with the first person shooter!”