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  • ThatWeirdGuy1001toPeople Twitter@sh.itjust.worksToxic Masculinity
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    14 days ago

    In my experience it’s easy to tell when a guy is only being friendly with a girl because he wants to fuck her and when he’s genuinely bring her friend.

    It’s not misogyny to think other men would try to fuck your girlfriend. Especially if she remains in contact with someone who is only her friend because he’s trying to fuck her.



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    14 days ago

    I don’t see it that way at all. He can trust her while not trusting the people she associates with.

    I’ve had this issue with multiple girlfriends (who all ended up with one of the guys I warned them about). It’s easy to tell when a guy is only being friendly to try to fuck a girl. Pointing that out isn’t controlling in my eyes it’s trying to be protective.

    I’ll grant you he shouldn’t have said “stop hanging out with them” but the main point is there if you don’t have the knee jerk reaction to the phrasing.










  • ThatWeirdGuy1001toLemmy ShitpostCalm down
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    21 days ago

    Don’t see how this equates to animals but I’m just a guy that grew up with 4 women in the house who were given everything they wanted and still complained while I got the bare minimum and wasn’t allowed to show any emotion.

    Normally I’d just say this is a me issue due to my upbringing but all my life experience shows the same thing over and over. Women are allowed to be over emotional whenever they want and it’s accepted. A guy gets over emotional once and he’s labeled a problem for the rest of his life.