because the ban is petty and vindictive. trans women are roughly equal in performance with cis women

well, i know 0 people who play badminton from all my friends and family, so that’d be 0 trans women rounding up

what about trans men interested in playing competitive juggling? are we just going to erase them?

what about nonbinary people who dislike cooking? have you forgotten about them completely???

and you haven’t even mentioned your opinion on waffles, do you hate them?

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the conversation was about trans women and badminton, not other things

yeah but like, how many of them are interested in badminton? and specifically badminton competitions

you look in a mirror, think hard, and undo that

50 sounds like a correct number of trans women interested in playing competitive badminton

a language might be a tool we use, but it absolutely shapes the way we see the world itself to a significant degree, even to the point where speakers of different languages might disagree on basic physical facts

eg: if you ask an english speaker how many fingers they have - they’ll answer 10. but if you answer a polish speaker - they’ll answer 20. polish makes little linguistic distinction between fingers, and how we call them, foot fingers

this is one example of many. i find it deeply fascinating and quite scary. it feels weird to realise that my understanding of the world is broadened and structured better thanks to the fact i use a language to describe it, but there might be things i’ll never notice, or will always confuse, simply because the tool i use is not perfect, and yet, that is the basis through which i perceive the world

thanks! i’m 25 so i have a life of figuring stuff out ahead of me lol

glad you’ve found some stability in your life, likewise wishing you well!

yeah i try to approach life that way but sometimes RSD is too fast for me to react. before i’m capable of logicking my way out of rejection - it hits, and the spiral begins, and that feeling of sinking in my chest is a point of no return. the only way to stop it is to go sleep for 8h to “reset”.

even if i know that what i’m feeling is fully irrational, the spiral seems to be inescapable

the TV is big and slow, a computer, more nimble, can outrun the ads, the TV is too slow to even attempt dodging

doesn’t work :( i care about people even more then, and my sensitivity gets more sensitive

hi there, RSD (and anxiety because of it) haver here

how do i not care

Eve was made from a man’s rib, so in a way at first she was a clone of his flesh, XY chromosomes and all. The bible does not elaborate on how the abrahamic god made her into a woman, she was able to bear children so there was definitely a change made to the “original” masculine reproductive system, but we don’t know at what stage of her becoming a being that occured. Either way though - Adam’s rib was transed by god themself into a woman.

now i’m wondering how all the christian terfs would react if someone said that trans women are actually the original women

yeah exactly, we don’t need someone to have a different skin colour to be racist, that’s a simple man’s racism. us europeans only do the finest of racisms - normal people with normal white skin (my village) vs the weird people with a similar skin but their accents are kinda weird and scary (all the other villages, and especially that one village over there)

(huge /j in case that wasn’t obvious)

still doesn’t change the fact that that’s not a game for kids, and the adults for whom that game was made can make as many bad decisions with their money as they can afford

i’m not in favour of gambling for children don’t get me wrong, in fact i was once a victim of it (thanks to wizard101, a game advertised as and marketed for children), but Valve just did not enage in that. if a child is playing a game that’s clearly marked “M” or “PEGI 18” then it’s the parents’ responsibility to figure out if its something appropriate for their child

iirc it linked me to some paper someone wrote in Cardiff T–T

turnitin once highlighted my page numbering as plagiarism

nahhh, lootboxes existed before CS:GO or TF2. and neither was supposed to be for kids in the first place! card games like MTG were one of the first mass created to use those mechanics

you know what was supposed to be for kids, had (& still has) lootboxes galore and other predatory monetisation tactics? Wizard101 (2008)

i don’t see many people complaining about MtG or Wizard101, but folks love to point out how Gaben did a bad thing by taking something that was already a concept (that people liked) and making it digital, whereby he accidentally created something he could never uncreate

yeah no matter how much i try discripline is incredibly difficult. my mind just doesn’t respond to “have to” or “should”, only must. if there isn’t a must to do the dishes, there is no force on earth that’ll convince my dumbass brain do move and do them

there is a lot of water everywhere. but when you add enough stuff to water it becomes something else