I have been pro privacy and anti data harvesting for many years now, however it is becoming increasingly more difficult staying off some platforms. Mostly Meta.

Over the years I have convinced most of my friends and family to use Signal instead of WhatsApp. However, there are still chat groups that I am missing from, and trying to keep up to date with local events seems next to impossible without Facebook or Instagram.

Additionally, I am finding it more and more tiring to have the awkward “No I don’t have WhatsApp. No I don’t have Facebook either. Or Instagram, sorry. Do you want to try an app that you’ve never heard of to stay in contact with me?” every time I meet someone new.

I saddens me that it feels like the multi-billion dollar data harvesting companies are winning, but I no longer know if this is a hill that I’m willing to die on.

What are your thoughts on what we have to give up in our lives just to stay in control of our personal information?

  • @joat_monOP
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    66 months ago

    Oh I hadn’t heard of Beeper. Thanks I’ll look in to that.

    • @[email protected]
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      146 months ago

      it’s not private, and could technically read and collect messages sent via e2ee services, FYI.

      • @joat_monOP
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        36 months ago

        Good to know, thanks

          • @joat_monOP
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            26 months ago

            Thanks, I do run my own server so this is a possibility