• @johannesvanderwhales
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      279 months ago

      It’s almost like the fact that the people who participate in online competitive gaming being complete shitstains (and it being completely normalized) is a big reason why I have no interest in online competitive gaming.

      • @[email protected]
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        -39 months ago

        Okay, I really don’t see how it’s that bad tbh. I’ve never messaged anyone like that or been toxic, but it’s so mild…

        I also don’t think it’s been “normalized”, it’s just really not a big deal. I don’t know why anyone would be that bothered by it and think they’re a complete shitstain.

        • The Octonaut
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          179 months ago

          It’s absolutely normalised. Imagine saying this in any other circumstance playing a game with a stranger.

          That this is mild for gaming doesn’t mean it isn’t toxic as fuck.

          • Instigate
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            99 months ago

            Yeah, it’s hard to imagine two strangers sitting at a chessboard at the park when one goes “LOL checkmate d00d u suck bro!!”. People are far more willing to be toxic arseholes when they don’t have to look the other person in the eye. Anonymity allows for the worst behaviour a person can engage in - just look at platforms with forced anonymity like 4chan. The more anonymous you are, the more of a dick you’re willing to be.

    • @Shadowedcross
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      79 months ago

      Obviously people have said and do say much worse things, but at least most of the time it’s in-game, it’s pretty shitty to DM someone instead.