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      16 months ago

      Unless that’s a surprise (that he likes men), I’m not sure how much of a problem that would really be.

      But far be it for me to tell anyone what should and shouldn’t upset them.

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        46 months ago

        Even if he likes men, and she knew, being told that you’re thought of as the gender you’re not isn’t something most people want. Calling a girl a dude when they identify as a girl isn’t exactly flattering.

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          16 months ago

          That’s fair enough. I don’t personally let such things bother me, but I’m strange.