I know it’s a strange question, and I’m sure it would be removed from Ask Lemmy, or other parts of Lemmy. I have this situation where one of my relatives killed another relative in 1990, and buried her body on the property without law enforcement ever knowing. He also buried another relative who was killed (by a different person), and buried her body around 1996. I have made posts venting a little about it. It is always met with downvotes and people denying that it ever happened. I have even been called crazy and told to remove my posts.

I’d like a chance to show Lemmy readers that I’m not fabricating this story. I would love the opportunity to have cadaver dogs brought to my relative’s house and used to search the property. I’d be willing to film the process and post it to Lemmy for doubters to see. I have asked K-9 Hire if they will rent cadaver dogs to me, but they never returned my email, or called me. They were the only private business that I found in California that rents cadaver dogs to individuals without involving law enforcement. I have filed a report with law enforcement, but they haven’t responded to it.

Let’s not wait until “Dad” is dead. Let’s have him start answering some questions about the 1990’s while he is still here, and claiming to be my biological father. Speaking of which, I look nothing like him, and he often expresses how much he hates the way my face looks. Friends often asked if I was adopted, when I was younger. There are no legal adoption papers for me. I don’t think it would hurt to take a dna blood test from “dad” in a medical facility, where he can’t go walk a saliva tube to some other man and brag about it later. I am owed some answers. I am owed several apologies for the child abuse I endured between 1988 and 2006. I think I’m owed for the threats made towards me when I tell him that I am considering unearthing those bodies.

So the world takes his side, and hates snitches? How would the rest of the world have liked to have been those two relatives of mine that are buried here? How would they have liked to have been an abused child? Lemmy readers always complain about police not doing their job well. How well would they perform as police if they don’t care about murder and child abuse? So what am I asking for here? Help? Yes, actually. Does anyone know of a place that could rent cadaver dogs to me in California? If so, that would be such a great help to me.

  • @glimseEnglish
    20•5 months ago

    I will tell you why your posts and comments tend to get downvoted but please read it as an observation on your communication as opposed to an attack on your character:

    You write like a crazy person. Like the other commenter said, you sound like you’re in the midst of a mental health crisis. It’s like writing a post in all caps and acting confused when people tell you to calm down. It doesn’t help that you’re a prolific poster and all of your posts have the same frantic energy.

    If the way you come across does not match your reality, perhaps reflect on your chosen writing style. It’s very, very, very similar to the way people often write during a manic episode.

    • @ParabolicMotionOPEnglish
      -11•5 months ago

      Really? Because your comments sound like a frantic person shouting at someone to shut up. You don’t sound like you’re very mature and even tempered.

      • @glimseEnglish
        12•5 months ago

        My comments don’t sound like that and I am both mature and even-tempered. I am not telling you to not share your thoughts, I’m suggesting that if you adjust your online communication style by explaining how it comes across to a lot of people as evident by the downvotes you get when you write that way.

        • @ParabolicMotionOPEnglish
          -12•5 months ago

          No one has ever told me that. No one says those things in response to posts I create about other topics, either. I only receive those comments with regard to this particular family issue. To me it comes across as, “be quiet, or we’ll frame you as crazy”. I was in honors English courses, AP English courses, and college writing courses. No one ever complained about my style of writing. I took the SAT, GRE, and ASVAB with my current writing style. I passed all of those exams. No one complained about my writing.

          I think you’re only complaining because the content makes you uncomfortable. I don’t know why it would, unless you happened to be involved in the family issue, or directly effected by it.

              • Todd BonzalezEnglish
                5•5 months ago

                Look, this person clearly has some issues, but my biggest concern is how she has been posting nakedly White Supremacist things.

                She posted here about how she’s tired of living and working around people that “don’t resemble her”, and she calls these groups of people gangs. Are they violent, organized criminals? No. By “gangs” she means this:

                I was denied a summer job today after being interviewed by a team of all Latino managerial staff members. I have never been one to say I felt uncomfortable being the only white person, and only female, in an interview session, but I feel like I need to say it now.

                Basically, “Latino people = Gangs”

                Link: https://lemmy.world/post/15377841

                On top of that, she recently told me (outside of this community) that everyone seeking asylum at the U.S. Southern border is criminal, we should ship them all to Vatican City because the Pope dared call us out on failing to help people, and made statements implying that living near immigrants is a burden of some sort.

                She also implied that seeking asylum was a form of illegal immigration, that allowing it at all “encourages people to run away” from their home countries, and complained that immigration laws aren’t enforced in America. She sounds like Fox News.

                how are you going to handle a group of migrants who can’t write the English language? You don’t seem like a patient and understanding person. I hope these migrants aren’t forced to take up residence near you.

                So basically, “I find Latin American migrants to be so horrible that I would use their mere existence as a threat”.

                Link: https://lemm.ee/comment/12105773

                She’s a deeply racist person with a shitty attitude towards just about everyone that engages with her, she’s mentally unwell and posts weird paranoid delusions on main, and she’s the only active mod of this community (the top mod disappeared 8 months ago).

                • @[email protected]English
                  6•5 months ago

                  I’ve taken a look, and nothing conclusively crosses the Lemmy.world terms of service.

                  I can only speculate how the Lemmy world admins decided who should take over as moderator for this community.

                  But we should not have this conversation in this post. It will get deleted , like all of the other posts were the comments don’t support the delusion, and our conversation will disappear. This is a good conversation for meta in lemmy.world.

          • @glimseEnglish
            8•5 months ago

            Of course they wouldn’t complain, your writing style is appropriate for an English class or memoir. But we’re chatting online, not trading papers. That is what I’m trying to get across.

            • @ParabolicMotionOPEnglish
              -8•5 months ago

              Phrasing aside, do you happen to know anyone with connections to cadaver dog rentals?

              Also, the sidebar of this sub says that I am more than welcome to share without restrictions to writing style. Read the first rule of the sub.