I know it’s a strange question, and I’m sure it would be removed from Ask Lemmy, or other parts of Lemmy. I have this situation where one of my relatives killed another relative in 1990, and buried her body on the property without law enforcement ever knowing. He also buried another relative who was killed (by a different person), and buried her body around 1996. I have made posts venting a little about it. It is always met with downvotes and people denying that it ever happened. I have even been called crazy and told to remove my posts.
I’d like a chance to show Lemmy readers that I’m not fabricating this story. I would love the opportunity to have cadaver dogs brought to my relative’s house and used to search the property. I’d be willing to film the process and post it to Lemmy for doubters to see. I have asked K-9 Hire if they will rent cadaver dogs to me, but they never returned my email, or called me. They were the only private business that I found in California that rents cadaver dogs to individuals without involving law enforcement. I have filed a report with law enforcement, but they haven’t responded to it.
Let’s not wait until “Dad” is dead. Let’s have him start answering some questions about the 1990’s while he is still here, and claiming to be my biological father. Speaking of which, I look nothing like him, and he often expresses how much he hates the way my face looks. Friends often asked if I was adopted, when I was younger. There are no legal adoption papers for me. I don’t think it would hurt to take a dna blood test from “dad” in a medical facility, where he can’t go walk a saliva tube to some other man and brag about it later. I am owed some answers. I am owed several apologies for the child abuse I endured between 1988 and 2006. I think I’m owed for the threats made towards me when I tell him that I am considering unearthing those bodies.
So the world takes his side, and hates snitches? How would the rest of the world have liked to have been those two relatives of mine that are buried here? How would they have liked to have been an abused child? Lemmy readers always complain about police not doing their job well. How well would they perform as police if they don’t care about murder and child abuse? So what am I asking for here? Help? Yes, actually. Does anyone know of a place that could rent cadaver dogs to me in California? If so, that would be such a great help to me.
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You write like a person who is in the midst of a mental health crisis. You should go see a therapist and just talk for an hour or two, just to see if they might be able to help you with some of the problems on your plate.
Why not just go to the cops instead of blowing smoke up all our asses? Anyone who truly thought a relative was a murderer wouldn’t be soliciting cadaver dogs on social media.
I have filed a report with local law enforcement. I also filed a federal tip online when the local law enforcement did not respond. I’m not lying. I’ll pay someone to bring cadaver dogs out here. I’m not blowing smoke up anyone here. I want to know why people like you immediately attack all of my posts regarding this situation, instead of saying that it should be investigated. Why not be in favor of searching for proof of an event occurring, instead of immediately denying it? If you thought the Earth was flat, and thought people who believed it was round were crazy, would you just keep denying their claims, or would you want to be provided with evidence? If you think I’m wrong, why are you so against the idea of proving that to be true? If cadaver dogs were walked around the property, and nothing caused a reaction from them, wouldn’t that be a feather in your cap? Why are you against investigating claims when it involves murders that are decades old?
I will tell you why your posts and comments tend to get downvoted but please read it as an observation on your communication as opposed to an attack on your character:
You write like a crazy person. Like the other commenter said, you sound like you’re in the midst of a mental health crisis. It’s like writing a post in all caps and acting confused when people tell you to calm down. It doesn’t help that you’re a prolific poster and all of your posts have the same frantic energy.
If the way you come across does not match your reality, perhaps reflect on your chosen writing style. It’s very, very, very similar to the way people often write during a manic episode.
Really? Because your comments sound like a frantic person shouting at someone to shut up. You don’t sound like you’re very mature and even tempered.
My comments don’t sound like that and I am both mature and even-tempered. I am not telling you to not share your thoughts, I’m suggesting that if you adjust your online communication style by explaining how it comes across to a lot of people as evident by the downvotes you get when you write that way.
No one has ever told me that. No one says those things in response to posts I create about other topics, either. I only receive those comments with regard to this particular family issue. To me it comes across as, “be quiet, or we’ll frame you as crazy”. I was in honors English courses, AP English courses, and college writing courses. No one ever complained about my style of writing. I took the SAT, GRE, and ASVAB with my current writing style. I passed all of those exams. No one complained about my writing.
I think you’re only complaining because the content makes you uncomfortable. I don’t know why it would, unless you happened to be involved in the family issue, or directly effected by it.
No one has ever told me that.
We literally tell you this every single time you post
I follow this community from far away, seems like a deja vu indeed
Of course they wouldn’t complain, your writing style is appropriate for an English class or memoir. But we’re chatting online, not trading papers. That is what I’m trying to get across.
Phrasing aside, do you happen to know anyone with connections to cadaver dog rentals?
Also, the sidebar of this sub says that I am more than welcome to share without restrictions to writing style. Read the first rule of the sub.
