• @[email protected]
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    206 months ago

    Should a woman “just tell everyone she doesn’t like it” if random people start grabbing her?

    • @[email protected]
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      -236 months ago

      First of all, unless this dude works at a strip club, I very highly doubt random coworkers are coming up and grabbing his biceps.

      I would buy this story more if it was a single female who continued to do this, but this just doesn’t add up.

      Secondly, if a woman’s biceps were being grabbed by a man, I’d have no idea what the fuck was going on.

      This story is fake as shit and ya’ll are treating it like it’s a case study.

      • @[email protected]
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        116 months ago

        No, we just treat it at face value, knowing little of the real situation.

        And reality is, men ARE abused and harrassed by women, and it’s much harder for them to speak out about it. Which makes it even more important not to distrust these stories straight from the start - they get their dose of distrust and victimblaming everywhere else.

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            That’s not an actual reply to the point they made. I know it feels good to call someone a child but it’s more effective to actually address the discussion.

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                46 months ago

                I speak to people on the level they’ve shown they should be spoken to, if that’s kindergarten so be it.