If so, does that mean people actually remember a persons name & face after only one encounter?!
If not, why do we pretend they will be upset, and try to hide the fact that we forget an unfamiliar name?
If so, does that mean people actually remember a persons name & face after only one encounter?!
If not, why do we pretend they will be upset, and try to hide the fact that we forget an unfamiliar name?
It really depends on the context. A business associate or colleague, it’s a bad look, but a personal acquaintance is usually no big deal. I often reintroduce myself to people socially, and admit I’ve forgotten their names. Sometimes it’s more awkward if we’ve known each other a while, and maybe I covered forgetting too many times and it would be weird to admit it this far into our “friendship.”
In a professional setting, not only does it make people feel important, but it also makes you seem smarter. Remembering details, birthdays, family members, and other personal conversation topics is a sales technique taught in business school. Admitting you’ve forgotten someone’s name may even come off as a power move. Mind games like that wre disturbingly common.