Hello ladies (current and former) of Lemmy (current) - I’m curious how your experience of the male gaze has changed as you moved in and out of young-woman-hood.

How has your opinion of being seen changed through this process?

  • @moistclump
    6•5 months ago

    Are you asking as a male or someone who’s transitioning out of young womanhood?

    • Clay_pidginOPEnglish
      16•5 months ago

      I’m a boring guy like from an insurance commercial, just curious what it’s like on the other side and especially in the way that experience changes! The categories in the title were the first I thought of for people who may have passed through or into a peak of sexual desirability. It’s probably fraught question, and I’m sure I’m phrasing it indelicately.

        • Clay_pidginOPEnglish
          15•5 months ago

          Kakhi shorts and a polo, yes! May I interest you in saving on your insurance by bundling home and auto?

          • @Lost_My_Mind
            3•5 months ago

            Sure. You just find a home in my price range, and a bank willing to loan money, and I’ll do the home insurance with you.