• @[email protected]
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    105 months ago

    I’ll add that there’s an element of denial and fear at losing community. For most ex-Christians I know, losing that familiar community is the last thing to go during their deconstruction. They might not believe in anything that’s taught anymore, but leaving behind that community means isolation for a while and having to build new friendships and support systems.

    So zealotry is definitely a component, but don’t discount fear of being an outcast, either.

    • @CarbonatedPastaSauce
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      35 months ago

      Absolutely true, but in my grandmother’s case she was just a fanatic. She didn’t socialize with anyone from the church anyway.