• @Aurix
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      Still not a pedophile nor a predator even for flirting. This is not a 12 year old, but in many jurisdictions a responsible adult.

      • @QuantumStorm
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        316 months ago

        He’s a morally reprehensible asshole either way.

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            • @[email protected]
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              Have you talked to 17 year olds? They are far from developed in most cases. Anyone even in their late 20s should notice the difference in development and stay clear.

            • Carighan Maconar
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              Yeah that’s a fair take.

              It is reprehensible and disgusting behavior, but it doesn’t mean we should universally apply labels across vast swaths of different issues, as it devalues said label and poisons future discussion.

              Simple labels simplify discussion of course, but that runs the risk of losing nuance for the specific way someone was a disgusting creep.

              • Dr. Jenkem
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                No it’s not. Beahm, a 38 year old man at the time, was sexting a minor. That makes him a pedo.

                • Carighan Maconar
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                  I did not disagree with that, so I’m not sure what you’re on about.

                  • Dr. Jenkem
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                    06 months ago

                    So you agree that Beahm is a pedo? You replied to a person that does not think he is a pedo with “fair take”. Maybe you replied to the wrong person.

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      • @[email protected]
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        Not in the jurisdiction he was in, and that’s all that matters.

        Also, while sending sexually explicit texts to minors (using only words) is not illegal, I’m pretty sure we can correlate what his intent was. What, do you think he’s going to come out and fully admit he’s a pedophile? No.

        Also, nowhere in any of his statements has he clarified that he didn’t know they were underage. If it were the case that he didn’t know, that’s a pretty fucking big deal and he should know how important it is to explain that. He didn’t though.

        Stop defending pedophiles.