• @fukurthumz420
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    you guys missed the point. neither should be bad. it’s only bad because of how we sexualize eveything. it’s the sexualization that’s bad, and honestly, that wouldn’t even be that bad if it weren’t for the patriarchal exploitation of sex.

    • Zoot
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      123 months ago

      Shouldn’t both be bad? Stop sharing naked photos of people who can’t give you consent to do so.

      • @fukurthumz420
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        213 months ago

        there is nothing inherently wrong with our naked bodies. society has conditioned us to have shame. once upon a time, being naked was normal.

        • Zoot
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          123 months ago

          Yeah I’d still rather people not show off photos of me without them asking. Its okay to have privacy.

          • @jaybone
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            123 months ago

            This has now gone to: sharing baby pictures is a privacy violation because the baby can’t give consent.

            Lot of very special people in this thread on Lemmy today.

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              I haven’t been able to peg Lemmy down even after a year and this thread hasn’t helped. Lemmy is pro-freedom, acceptance, and FOSS, is literal to the point of absurdity, has a selectively activated superiority complex, and averages ~17 years old. Knowing all of that, I’m still endlessly befuddled. Any chance you’ve got the last puzzle piece?

              • @MutilationWave
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                93 months ago

                Lemmy skews way older. Like 30+ average I’d say.

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                  There are many users over 30 but they are the minority. The clear absence of memory beyond what I’d personally describe as recent is pretty telling. I really have nothing tangible to back the assertion but it’s fairly apparent to me as a person of an age.

              • @jaybone
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                63 months ago

                this particular thread seems to have brought out a real strange bunch today.

              • @[email protected]
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                53 months ago

                It’s a majority (or close to) 40yr old tech autists. I’m not trying to be funny, I’m not trying to be offensive, that’s just a statement of fact.

            • @[email protected]
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              03 months ago

              sharing naked with their genitals exposed baby pictures is a privacy violation

              Lot of very special people in this thread on Lemmy today.

              Yes, yes there are.

          • @fukurthumz420
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            23 months ago

            Yeah, i mean in today’s world, i value privacy too, but don’t you wish you lived in a world where we were more in tune with the natural world and our natural selves?

            • @jaybone
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              53 months ago

              I’m betting this same person you are arguing with is a vocal atheist who doesn’t realize religion is what imposed this shame upon our natural form, and probably that taboo contributes to the sexualization.

              • @fukurthumz420
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                13 months ago

                i’m an atheist and i realize that.

                i agree with some other folks on here. i think there are a lot of children who haven’t thought this stuff all the way through yet.

              • Zoot
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                13 months ago

                Id be quite curious if you’re a nudist. If you’re fine and happy to run amok without clothes on, have at it!

                Dont be an ass. Don’t share naked photos of people. Its really not that difficult of a concept to have.

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          STOP SHARING NAKED IMAGES OF PEOPLE WHO CANNOT CONSENT

          IT IS THEIR BODY, NOT THEIR PARENTS AND NOT YOURS

          WHY IS CONSENT SO HARD FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND

          • @fukurthumz420
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            -13 months ago

            wow. you are triggered. you must still be young enough that this hits home for you.

            • @[email protected]
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              I’m an adult

              I’m sure you wouldn’t want your parents taking naked pictures of you now and showing people

              How is it any different from when you are a baby

              • @fukurthumz420
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                -13 months ago

                because i was…

                wait for it…

                a baby.

                grow up.

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        Stop sharing any photos of people who don’t give consent, whether they can or not.

        In an alternate timeline where we never had the stigma around nudity, I’d be just as embarrassed of my nose in a photo than I would of my penis.

        Or maybe 10 years after I cut ties with you because you became a massive douche sandwich, I don’t want my picture on the same Facebook wall as your white pride rally.

        Not you, personally, but any body really.

    • Juniper (she/her) 🫐
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      Hmm, that’s a good point, I was just clarifying what Dark Arc said as far as I can tell. You’re right neither should be sexualized, but in the world we live in neither should be shared IMO.

    • @[email protected]
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      33 months ago

      Still shouldn’t be sharing naked pictures of people without consent and of people who cannot consent

    • @[email protected]
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      03 months ago

      neither should be bad.

      Yes, they both should be bad. Don’t show people photos of naked children.