For me it is when companies/services market themselves as donating to XYZ cause if I buy their product. If they want to donate, they should have already done that with the money they have. Asking me to give them profit so that they can donate is so obviously pretentious.
I found a real easy approach to any undesired solicitation - zero contact, no reaction. Works on telemarketers, panhandlers, salespeople etc.
I have no shame about ghosting you publicly when the only thing you’re after is my money. If I’m in the home generator store, sure thing bro talk to me about my home power needs. If I’m walking out the supermarket and you slide around a booth to “help me keep my home safe during unrest” nah fam you can fuck yourself.
Cold open sales is parallel to pick-up “artists” imo. You want the transactional outcome for yourself, and my consent is the only thing you’re concerned about taking care of.
I fucking cannot stand when salespeople use basic human decency as an opening for a conversation. We made eye contact, I nodded and acknowledged your existence, I do not want to talk to you about how quickly you can remodel my bathroom. I can see your display, if I was interested, I would have asked you about it. Yes, I’m going to be rude to you because you abused my being polite to you. Fuck all the way off.