• NoSpiritAnimal
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    202 months ago

    I just plain don’t tell my mother anything. Every hobby is an opportunity to criticize and belittle, so why bother?

    • @SLVRDRGN
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      42 months ago

      And then they get mad that you don’t tell them what you’re up to. Either listen and don’t belittle, or be a belittler and don’t expect to hear anything.

      Pick one, you can’t have both.

    • @nikaaa
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      42 months ago

      Exactly, think: How does my mother treat me? How should I treat her?