• @then_three_more
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    264 months ago

    Counterpoint: my nan is 104 and hasn’t done a day of work since she was a Land Girl during the second world war.

    • @[email protected]
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      104 months ago

      Guess she was an at home mom, right? Because that’s more than a full time job, especially back in the days when the man didn’t take care of the kids except when it came time to scold them.

      • @then_three_more
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        44 months ago

        True. But even once the last child was an adult she didn’t even have any kind of part time work.

        • sunzu
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          -14 months ago

          Good she did her job! She did her part and presumably satisfied with it.

          This whole devaluation of womens labour contributionand to society as mothers is fucking disgusting.

          • @[email protected]
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            64 months ago

            Just to chime in a little. I don’t think the implication was “my nan never worked”, I think it was more “she never had a 9 to 5”. No one in this conversation was trying to say being a mom is easy, so much as they’re saying working a desk job is harmful to the soul. While more demanding than a desk job, raising children is also a truly meaningful occupation; like, deep down, meaning of life type meaningful. You don’t get “paid”, but no amount of pay is worth more than watching your child learn and become a person either. Ultimately I don’t think the ease or difficulty of jobs is whats enabling or preventing these people from living a long time. It probably has more to do with a sense of purpose. The article is disingenuous because an overwhelming majority of jobs do not provide a sense of purpose.

            • sunzu
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              14 months ago

              The article is disingenuous because an overwhelming majority of jobs do not provide a sense of purpose.

              Exactly.

              Also, I didn’t mean that somebody implied that about motherhood here.

              But I bet corporate propganda would tho… Why would this bitch parenting her child when she could be making daddy some mother fucking money as a girl boss or whatever recent bushit they are shiling.

      • @then_three_more
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        154 months ago

        In both of the world wars Britain had an organisation called the Women’s Land Army. Which was a thing women could volunteer for to work on farms while the men who would normally work there were at war.

        https://www.womenslandarmy.co.uk/