Interesting thing about teasing, edging, and creating desire in general. Over the time I’ve been trying out different kinds of methods, one thing became clear to me. There is a lot of complexity in the simplest of things. Sounds like a paradox? No really, I just think it’s a little bit layered. So let me explain what I mean and perhaps give you some inspiration. Or a boner … or at least an attempt and a few twitches if you are caged 🤭

The simple: Guys don’t always need anything overly intricate. That doesn’t mean it complicated is bad, but that’s not the point. Just enough attention, dress up a little bit sexy (or undress sexy), and play with their dicks. I feel like this is femdom unrelated, but I had plants that were more difficult to maintain than this 🤭 I have two boxes full of toys, but sometimes all I use are thigh-high socks, short skirt, my bare tits, and the key ingredient, attention. Because being worth somebody else time is the sexiest thing. And it goes both ways, I like the attention as well. I love knowing he’s unable to get me out of his head. 😈

There are certain stimuli guys are unable to resist. And it doesn’t matter if they are into femdom, maledom, or completely vanilla. If I just sit in front of him with my tits out I got him 🤭But in the end attention is the sexiest - also proven by the fact, that sometimes it’s all he gets. And I am sure if I make him pick between a bored handjob to completion, or denying him with passion, thinking about how to make him tremble with horniness, he would pick the latter every time. Well, most of the time anyway, sometimes I make him really desperate 😇 😅

In short, he doesn’t need that much. Pull his pants down, unlock his cage, and give him a little handjob. Of course, I am trying to make it feel nice and sensual. I am feeling his excitement in my hands. Add more grip and adjust pacing to keep him close, but not too close. Now that’s the simple, the obvious first layer that’s happening right on the surface… but it goes deeper.

And now the complex: The dick massage alone is nice. I can see him enjoying it, but it’s just a dick in my hand. Very simple. We both crave something that will go a step beyond. And I am sure we aren’t the only ones feeling this way. The interesting thing for me is, that I don’t really need to worry about the complexity and nuances every time. Why? Well, because his brain will simply fill everything in. Unless I tell him step by step what’s going to happen, there is a ton of unknown to explore. Probably much more than I could plan for.

His mind is free to wonder about all the possible options. Will I make him cum? It’s unlikely, but it could happen. Will I put him in my mouth to surprise him? How many edges he’s going to get? If I don’t let him cum, when it’s going to happen? Will he get locked back to the same cage, or will he get flattened down again? He gets to think about all the exciting things that could be and maybe will be, all while he’s watching my tits swings and jiggle while I stroke him. 😈

I love how chastity can sexualize anything. And yeah, it’s not a big revelation, that tease and denial session is sexual. It would be erotic on its own. But as somebody with a high libido, I love how it’s an extra layer to anything. Handjob just has a completely different energy when I pull the dick out of the chastity cage, instead of underwear. 😈

This is why I like keeping a journal about our sessions. Because there is a lot more happening. And as a last note, I was quite pleased with myself when I squeezed him back into the cage 🤭 Sometimes it’s difficult, but damn it’s hot seeing him dripping precum while I am about to lock the cage, knowing all that pent up frustration is about to get a lot more concentrated 😈