I wouldn’t go that far. If you look at what they said, they were talking about cheating, or rather helping someone cheat.

Still a less than stellar ethical stance, but the comment they were responding to was about cheating, not consent, so I suspect that those of us that saw the ugliest possibilities in the post saw their comment with that in mind. I know I did the first time I saw the comment. It wasn’t until I came back after a response to a comment I made that I noticed the difference.

Mind you, they then went full jerk, so they aren’t exactly a pleasant individual. But I’d rather that be the issue than something they didn’t actually say.

To be fair he is right. The girl could have given consent before they began drinking. Its possible the story actually isnt rape even if they have sex.

Theres even a situation where the girl would be justified in being upset they didnt hook up.

We can’t predict the future and theres not enough details here to make a specific determination on what is right and wrong.

It is a good post to stoke discussion around consent and honesty though, just don’t take it so seriously.

To think you wonder why you don’t get invited to parties.