People who make me feel like crap or worse off then when I encountered them consistently are written off and out of my life
Doesn’t matter if its family, nobody is entitled to your attention and suffering and it does nobody any real good for you to succumb to the inevitable dysfunction it creates in your life and relationships and also material conditions.
“Treat people the way you would like them to treat you.”
“Judge every claim on the basis of the evidence presented for it.”
Treat people the way they would like to be treated.